people are so fucking inconsiderate

[Ellen]

Some people are just sorry as hell! You would think, especially coming from somebody you consider a friend, that they would not treat you like shit. And then when you say something to them about it, they try to change the story around. GOD FORBID they ever actually realize or admit that they are self-centered pieces of shit. You go OUT OF YOUR WAY for people because you care about them. You don't mind helping them out, in fact it makes you glad when you can. Then it seems like as soon as you are done doing something for them, they completely "forget" about it and all they seem to focus on is "what's in it for me?".

Have you ever met anybody like this? As long as you are benefiting them, they want to be your best friend, but then when they find somebody that might be able to "benefit" them more, they just move right on to their new flavor of the week.

so, for those of you who have TRUE FRIENDS that are there no matter what, you better let them know you appreciate them and treat them right! They are very few and far between!

And for all of you out there that are "users", I hope you all get yours one day!

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[Liquidshadows]

Yes, actually, I've lost some of my dearest friends over that sort of thing. Nothing feels worse than being betrayed by someone you truly trusted. I hope you feel better.

[snipersloth3]

Et tu Brute?

Karma happens. No worries. I know how you feel.

[LitLaur]

You summed up my senior year of high school very well. Unfortunately, it was all of my friends, but I didn't cry about it. I just went out and met new people.

[HellRaiza65]

my mom has always told me that by the end of your life, youll be able to count your TRUE friends on one hand. so far it seems that may hold true. shit happens: wear a helmet. n yes, karma does happen!!!!!! im a firm believer in that fact. theyll get theirs :D

[snipersloth3]

You summed up my senior year of high school very well. Unfortunately, it was all of my friends, but I didn't cry about it. I just went out and met new people.
You seem like a strong woman for that...

[LitLaur]

It definitely made me stronger, but it was still hard.

[BGirl]

I used to think the important thing to remember is that isnt the quality, not the quantity of friends you have. But sometimes people change and you still end up screwed.
My best friend of seven years used to get beat up by her boyfriend, but she went back to him again and again. I moved her in with me to get her away, then found out she was sneaking him in while i was at work. She eventually moved out, left me without her month's share of the rent, and told me they were getting married. She has never called me again.

[BGirl]

OK OK so now I have one better!!!

I had a job available for 9 an hour. I asked M if he knew anyone. He said his friend needed a job. So ok, I fax him the apps and tell him to come in Monday. Later he tells M, not me, he wont be in til Tuesday. I was like ok, I'll work with him, tell him 11:00.
Tuesday comes, no show, at 12, M calls me, I tell him he didnt show. We track him down, he says yeah its gonna be 2:30. So cool. No show at 2:30. So M calls his house b/c he wants to offer gas money, and tells the guys mom, cuz hes at a baseball game.
Later, dude calls M and tells him he needs to apologize to his mom for insulting her by saying he'd give him gas money, and that he needs to use respect.
WTF????????????
Does this dude not get it? We tried to get him a job, he never called never showed, M tries to help with gas money, and now we gotta apologize?

Some people.

[Ellen]

my new pet peeve is people who DON'T FUCKING CALL YOU BACK WHEN THEY SHOULD!

okay, I had two tickets to the E50 playboy party. Yesterday I called a friend to see if he was interested in them. He calls me back and says he's got them sold. A friend of his wants them. Then he tells me he will stop by my house at noon today to pick them up on his way to his friends. Well, noon comes...he doesn't show up. I give him the benefit of the doubt and wait until around 1:30 to give him a call. No answer. I leave a message. I called one more time around 3:30. NO answer and NO show.

You know, it would have been fine if the guy had changed his mind and didn't want them. I wouldn't have cared. but THEY SHOULD HAVE AT LEAST CALLED ME AND LET ME KNOW SO I DIDN'T WASTE ALL DAY WAITING ON THEM!!! I could have been looking for somebody else to buy them instead.

I never heard from them at all. stupid fawkers.

[BGirl]

One word puddin..


ERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!

[starburst]

Yes! I have, unfortunately, known more than my share of those kinds of people and really the only thing you can do is write them off. Otherwise you're just going to keep on giving and they're just going to to keep on taking and NOT giving.

[LitLaur]

I had to wait three hours once for the Progressive guy to come look at my truck (claims adjuster?). He called an hour after he was supposed to show up because he had gotten lost (he was 1 street down, less than 2 minutes away). I told him his mistake and told my friend to come over (we had planned on going out) and we sat and waited...and waited...when he finally shows up, he has the audacity to ask to use my bathroom, and gave no explanation whatsoever of his extreme lateness.

[Mr._Bitchface]

this person doesn't really sound like any friend i've ever heard of. as for the getting screwed by people you trust, i've come up with a fool-proff means of avoiding this problem: don't trust anybody! they'll always disappoint. i think i trust maybe 4 people in the world, and i've known them all for over a decade.

Some people are just sorry as hell! You would think, especially coming from somebody you consider a friend, that they would not treat you like shit. And then when you say something to them about it, they try to change the story around. GOD FORBID they ever actually realize or admit that they are self-centered pieces of shit. You go OUT OF YOUR WAY for people because you care about them. You don't mind helping them out, in fact it makes you glad when you can. Then it seems like as soon as you are done doing something for them, they completely "forget" about it and all they seem to focus on is "what's in it for me?".

Have you ever met anybody like this? As long as you are benefiting them, they want to be your best friend, but then when they find somebody that might be able to "benefit" them more, they just move right on to their new flavor of the week.

so, for those of you who have TRUE FRIENDS that are there no matter what, you better let them know you appreciate them and treat them right! They are very few and far between!

And for all of you out there that are "users", I hope you all get yours one day!

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