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Liquidshadows
04-12-2004, 02:27 PM
Has anyone ever noticed how being blindfolded can make something you're familiar with into a completely new experience?
Merge
04-12-2004, 02:42 PM
You've to have a lot of trust for the person blind folding you.... Gawd only knows what they could do....
I'm invisioning the movie Spun, where he left the girl on his bed for 4 days....:twitch:
Liquidshadows
04-12-2004, 02:59 PM
You've to have a lot of trust for the person blind folding you.... Gawd only knows what they could do....
I'm invisioning the movie Spun, where he left the girl on his bed for 4 days....:twitch:
It sounds like you're talking more about being cuffed or tied up, but yes that applies to blindfold too. You're right though, you have to have a high level intimacy and trust. To me though, if I don't have that with a person I probably don't want to sleep with them anyway. It's certainly not a good idea on a one night stand.
hmmm... I think that's reason #453 Why I Don't Like One Night Stands.
Merge
04-12-2004, 03:08 PM
It sounds like you're talking more about being cuffed or tied up, but yes that applies to blindfold too. You're right though, you have to have a high level intimacy and trust. To me though, if I don't have that with a person I probably don't want to sleep with them anyway. It's certainly not a good idea on a one night stand.
hmmm... I think that's reason #453 Why I Don't Like One Night Stands.
I don't think I could have that much trust/faith in someone to let them do that to me.... bc if they fucked it up in any way, it would break that trusting bond we have... Guess maybe I'm just not the adventurous type... -shrugs-
wetlook
04-12-2004, 03:16 PM
i'll let myself be blindfolded
Forrest
04-12-2004, 03:42 PM
i think its fun. ive never put one on tho, because i do all the work:D
unless you yourself is a retard or the person your with is, nothing bad will happen when being blindfolded...its not like you dont have your hands to take it off. DERP!
Merge
04-12-2004, 03:42 PM
i'll let myself be blindfolded
Blindfold yourself? Don't walk around like that... :p
BGirl
04-12-2004, 03:50 PM
A moment of darkness reminds me that I dont have a fucking clue where my light switches are located on my wall.
SXAngelXS
04-12-2004, 04:09 PM
well i agree with you 100%. when you are expecting something to happen or you know it is coming it is so different than having know idea what to expect..... i dont know i think it is fun!!!
Liquidshadows
04-12-2004, 05:33 PM
A moment of darkness reminds me that I dont have a fucking clue where my light switches are located on my wall.
It's not exactly what I was talking about but you have a point. When you can't see all of a sudden you realize how much we exclude our other senses because we rely on sight. If you ever try dancing in pitch blackness you'll realize how much it throws off your balance. I'd make sure you have lots of room if you try it though...
xxplicitgrooves
04-12-2004, 05:36 PM
i want to try being blindfolded and tied down., but not to many people i trust....
so that cancels it
hoppy
04-12-2004, 05:45 PM
Maybe I should try racing my quad blindfolded to spice things up, its lost a little of it's intrigue lately.
Liquidshadows
04-12-2004, 05:47 PM
^^^LMFAO!
Ellen
04-12-2004, 05:56 PM
Has anyone ever noticed how being blindfolded can make something you're familiar with into a completely new experience?
you mean like "pin the tail on the donkey"? :p
Liquidshadows
04-12-2004, 06:00 PM
you mean like "pin the tail on the donkey"? :p
Yeah, something like that...;)
Liquidshadows
04-13-2004, 11:34 AM
*bump*
earthangel
04-13-2004, 11:57 AM
Has anyone ever noticed how being blindfolded can make something you're familiar with into a completely new experience?
hehehehehehehehehehhee.... yesh I've definatly noticed... :p :o
LitLaur
04-13-2004, 12:02 PM
i think its fun. ive never put one on tho, because i do all the work:D
A lot of guys wouldn't put on a blindfold. They are fixated on visual stimulation. If you've seen Roger Dodger, you know what I'm talking about (scene in the bar when Jennifer Beals is talking about guys getting blowjobs). I'd estimate that 90% of the time (during sexual acts) my eyes are closed. I just prefer to concentrate on the tactile sensations.
BGirl
04-13-2004, 06:42 PM
Let me know if you change your mind. If you're a good little puppy I might even let you play fetch.:D
Forrest
04-13-2004, 08:12 PM
A lot of guys wouldn't put on a blindfold. They are fixated on visual stimulation. If you've seen Roger Dodger, you know what I'm talking about (scene in the bar when Jennifer Beals is talking about guys getting blowjobs). I'd estimate that 90% of the time (during sexual acts) my eyes are closed. I just prefer to concentrate on the tactile sensations.
your right, i am fixated on visual stimulation. but if i couldnt see, then there would be no sex, because i wouldnt be able to see what im doing. and im always the one in charge. so i guess your right. i like to watch:)
Liquidshadows
04-14-2004, 10:10 AM
That's right B-Girl, if you want to be a bitch that's fine with me, that's how you'll be treated.
snipersloth3
04-14-2004, 10:18 AM
You really have to trust the other person, more than a seeing-eye-dog for the blind.
Get past the trust issue and it heightens the rest of your senses when you can't see.
I close my eyes when I do naughty stuff or even when I kiss, (I love to hear the reactions) but occasionally I like to see the look on her face when I'm doing something right.
xxplicitgrooves
04-16-2004, 07:41 AM
i dont get the whole lites out thing, like its taboo to be scene, lites dim 12 thing, but
id Rather see, i wanna see what im doin, and the other persons reaction, i gett off on gettin them off,
OriginalSin
04-16-2004, 02:32 PM
your right, i am fixated on visual stimulation. but if i couldnt see, then there would be no sex, because i wouldnt be able to see what im doing. and im always the one in charge. so i guess your right. i like to watch:)
your not ALWAYS in charge i mean C'MON- you make it sound like i sit there like im dead or some shit....geez...no sex without you doing it, hu?
and i could swear ive put a blindfold on you before.....
Liquidshadows
04-16-2004, 02:33 PM
^^^ROFLMFAO
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