i don't know where to put this. SO i'll just stick it....here.

[triphop_femme]

It's called politeness, and etiquette. It's not that hard. And it's also called "if you want someone to give a fuck about you, pretend you give a fuck about them". Okay. So it's just a pet peeve of mine. And i'm sorry for being shitty about it, but, damn...
Okay. So, we (we being just myself) are going to do a little role playing. Ready? Good.

Ahem.

Person A: Hey!

Person B: Hey! How have you been?

A: i'm gonna say a bunch of crap right here before i even think about asking how you are, 'cos i want you to think i'm really cool, and i want to let everyone i know, even if i don't know them well enough for them to care, that i'm doing this and i want attention from you so i can hear you say how cool i am. Tee hee!!!

A: So...me me me me me me me...and me. Oh, and whole lot of fucking ME.

B: Wow. You haven't changed one bit. Here, let me give you some advice on the little "problem" that you just spoke about. 'Cos i'm nice and i like helping people out. Even if they're people like you who don't give a fuck about anyone but themselves.

A: WOW!!! What great advice!! i'm going to go do that right now. i don't know why i didn't think of that before, that was soooo simple!!

B: i'm fine, thank you for asking. Oh, and you're welcome.

A: ....oh, i've gotta go, i've gotta go do this reeeeally cool thing that involves me.




i know that was stupid, but what do you expect from me?? But, i don't want to talk to you if all you're going to do is talk about is yourself. You're wasting my time. i mean, sure, i've got nothing BUT time, but i dont' want to waste it on someone who doesn't spend it well.

i've had more than several "conversations" with you. Not once did you ever ask how i was. And every single time, it's just about you. You're like one of those computer pop-ups that won't go away, you just come up to fill me in on pointless information. Information that i obviously could have lived without. i mean, shit, yeah, if i'm happy about something, i'll tell people. But i'll tell my friends.

If i don't talk to you at least once a month, if i don't have your number in my phone, and/or i don't go out of my way to give you a hug when i see you...well, then, you're probably not my friend. So don't pretend you're doing me a favour. *grinz*

[BGirl]

oh, i've gotta go, i've gotta go do this reeeeally cool thing that involves me.
You're like one of those computer pop-ups that won't go away, you just come up to fill me in on pointless information. Information that i obviously could have lived without.

Classic!!! :)

[genius@large]

bravo!

[krystal]

I'm so very afraid to even ask who this is about.........*hugs meg*

[TwAkRoX]

*3hugs* and 4 from da .

[triphop_femme]

I'm so very afraid to even ask who this is about.........*hugs meg*


i'm too nice to say their name. i'd feel bad. Geez. Kim was right. i'm such a douche. *shakeshead*

*winx* Just kidding.

[triphop_femme]

*3hugs* and 4 from da .

Aww...the "." Hee hee hee hee!! Thanks.

[Surreal]

Kim was right.
She usually is.:)

BTW...you and I need to hang out again sometime soon...I miss chillin wit ya:D

Oh...are you still workin up at P.F. Changs?

[triphop_femme]

She usually is.:)

BTW...you and I need to hang out again sometime soon...I miss chillin wit ya:D

Oh...are you still workin up at P.F. Changs?Yes sir. Sure am. HEY!! You wanna go to the Cheetah this weekend with James and Zandy and me??? You know you wanna...pretty girls...being all naked and junk..c'mon, say it with me. Pretty naked girls...i'll buy you a driiiiink!

ps. just in case you couldn't tell by my invitation, i'd LOVE to hang out with you damn it!!!

and pss...or it it pps..or is it ps x 2? Whatever...yes, Kim usually IS right. And thanks for calling me a douche, Robert. :p

[triphop_femme]

Oh my god. And it continues...just in different areas. WTF???

[krystal]

I think you should tell the person.......what is the worst that can happen....they dont talk to you anymore or they might just see how they need to be a bit more selfless.....hummmmmmm I think you should just tell them and stick up for yourself and the way you feel

[OrngePlasticTree]

*luvs* just punch em in the face midsentence and be done with it. ... and i think ive heard the title of this thread somewhere before......... :twitch:

[krystal]

I jsut can't see meg hitting anyone......hitting on yes but hitting no....hummmmmm

[triphop_femme]

i don't know if i can tell them. i've wanted to. Not last time, but the time before that time, when they started talking to me, i seriously wanted to interrupt them and be like: I'M FINE THANK YOU FOR ASKING. And then leave. And i can't hit anyone. i have before, and that just felt bad. Plus, i get all shaky when i'm in a confrontational thing. Not good. And as for the hitting on thing, Krystal, i don't think i can do that either.

But, okay. The next time they go out of their way to grace me with their presence, i'll tell them what i think. Maybe...it'll make me stronger!! YEAH!! Like an amizon woman!!! ARRGGG!!!!

[krystal]

LOL yeah I think you should start thinking of making meg happy and not worry too much about other people for a min you know just to see how it feels

[triphop_femme]

i always seem to fuck things up when i try to make Meg happy though. So i will stick to making others happy. Unless it invovles people like this.

[krystal]

but meg deserves to be happy too

[krystal]

here.....I'll share my thin mints with you *hands meg some cookies*

[triphop_femme]

Holy fucking shit in a bucket, THIN MINTS????

*gobbles'emrightup*

Were they in the freezer????

Why hasn't Dad brought home Girl Scout cookies yet??? He totally ordered them months ago, and EVERYONE is eating them around me. You are the first to share, Krystal. Thanks...even though...it's...through the computer. Damn.

[krystal]

yeah derek brought mine home today but he only got one box of thin mints and those nassey simoa's, I could only handle like 2 of those, anyways my box of thin mints is so almost gone......haha I almost ate the whole box by myself I had to share you can already roll me through the aparment as is hahahaha

[triphop_femme]

Damn dude. Tell Derek to bring me some damn cookies!! Wait a minute...roll you through the apartment?

[krystal]

yeah for eating the whole box........I feel like a heffier but oh well cause they were good *goes back to eating thin mints*

[TwAkRoX]

muffins motha fuckas

[krystal]

you owe me muffins............... have you seen the muffin man ,the muffin man,the muffin man....have you seen the muffin man..blah blah blah blah blah I forgot the song:twitch:

[TwAkRoX]

I jsut can't see meg hitting anyone......hitting on yes but hitting no....hummmmmmdorothys told me some stories....:D


of meg hitting...not hitting on;)

[Giggles]

I'm covered in chicken blood........

[krystal]

I'm covered in chicken blood........ewwwwwww step away from the cult.....I promise you can do it!!

[triphop_femme]

dorothys told me some stories....:D


of meg hitting...not hitting on;)
PWAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH!!!!

:vroom:

[triphop_femme]

I'm covered in chicken blood........
Now, being covered in chicken blood can be okay, just as long as it wasn't you who smeared it all over yourself...or it wasn't you who said yes to the whole, "hey can i cover you in chicken blood?" idea.

[TwAkRoX]

but meg deserves to be happy too
:headbang:

[triphop_femme]

Okay. Apparently you're not smart enough. Or maybe you are, and you're just playing dumb. But this time, you didn't even give me enough time to tell you what i wanted to say! Damn you and the way you are!!

[krystal]

DAMN meg just hit him/her!!! take out all the "I want more girl scout cookies" rage on their face *says in a tough,big,burly manly voice" YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[wetlook]

Triphop_femme, that is soooo me, i am person A, like i totally tottally agree with you, i feel the same way, i really like to talk about me, i just don't really see anyone else as being more important then what i have to say, i tottally identify with you on this, i am just like that, oh yeah, i've been good, just kind of hanging out, you know, chillen, oh yeah, did i tell you about that ehyeah heya ealhf....................................gag

[triphop_femme]

Triphop_femme, that is soooo me, i am person A, like i totally tottally agree with you, i feel the same way, i really like to talk about me, i just don't really see anyone else as being more important then what i have to say, i tottally identify with you on this, i am just like that, oh yeah, i've been good, just kind of hanging out, you know, chillen, oh yeah, did i tell you about that ehyeah heya ealhf....................................gag
i can't quite figure out what you meant. You agree with me that you are the type of person that irks me? There's nothing wrong with talking about one's self. But, if you want to keep someone into the conversation, bring THEM into the conversation as well. Does that make any sort of sense at all?

[AB3]

if someone doesn't give a shit about me, i'd rather them do exactly what they are doing. it's then up to me if i want to talk with them again (which is doubtful). it seems like you keep talking to them though... that's kind of comparable to the moth that just keeps beating itself against the light bulb. it just doesn't make sense! just my .02.

[Kujo]

laff

[wetlook]

i can't quite figure out what you meant. You agree with me that you are the type of person that irks me? There's nothing wrong with talking about one's self. But, if you want to keep someone into the conversation, bring THEM into the conversation as well. Does that make any sort of sense at all?
you make perfect sense, i can relate to you one hundred and thirty point two percent, my previous post i was mostly being sarcastic, however, at one time i myself fit your discription pretty well(one of those things you look back on and grimace about) so anyway:

......werd

[triphop_femme]

if someone doesn't give a shit about me, i'd rather them do exactly what they are doing. it's then up to me if i want to talk with them again (which is doubtful). it seems like you keep talking to them though... that's kind of comparable to the moth that just keeps beating itself against the light bulb. it just doesn't make sense! just my .02.i know. It is my fault for when i talk to them. But i always, for some fucked up reason, want to give people the benefit of the doubt. Even if they have been a shit to me, or whatever it is they've done, i would like to think that maybe they've changed, or maybe they really aren't how i think they are. Maybe i should start being a bitch then? See..i'd feel bad. i guess i could just stop talking to them. Most of the times i have ignored them. But the times that i don't, that's when i think maybe they're not how they have been. i don't know. i'm actually working on a plan right now, to grow some balls so i can tell this person what i think. Maybe then i can tell everyone else what i think of them as well, if the time calls for that.


Oh, and ps. Thanks for your .02

[b:rok]

bump

[triphop_femme]

wtf3