Which is more important.....

[aramis_15]

Okay now for my question What is more important looks or personality?

[xxplicitgrooves]

to me, noe personality, i was invalved with 2 different guys, both were very handsome, but 2 of the worse guys i could have ever delt with. this post os not for me to mention the drama involved, but personality is always the better attribute.......

[xxplicitgrooves]

good topic by the way

[turbo]

right now

looks
who wants to have sex with someone ogly

[xxplicitgrooves]

ugly people need lovin too, but as far as a relationship goes, what 1 is it

i think this thread started with a question that seemed to be inquiring for a bit of a long haul, rather a 1 nite stand.



cause if that was the case, id be a ho

and thats all im sayin

[turbo]

ok if your in love than you wouldent be asking
it wouldent matter what they looked like, or what anyone thought.
you would know you love them and want to be with them no matter what
so the question is is the person in love

[turbo]

read my thread TURBO

[xxplicitgrooves]

iight then!!!!

[xxplicitgrooves]

so...... if it was just a fuck the person had to be hot, but if its more than that, then personality is the key factor. is that what i feel youre sayin.

correct me if im wrong??

[turbo]

your correct personality all the way

p.s read my thread TURBO

[xxplicitgrooves]

p.s read my thread TURBO

what thread????

[aramis_15]

Well this question was geared toward anything you wanted it to be toward. I personal feel that both factors are equally important in either situation. I feel that looks will get a persons foot in the door....and that personality carries it the rest of the way. See a one night stand can be come more if that person has that correct mix.....or a sexy chic can become a one night stand due to her flaws in the personality department.....see what I mean

[Plurizma]

personality. I've learned the hard way on that one.

[kelpel]

Hmmm.

[aramis_15]

It's not that hard a question....it's pretty straight forward.....It just proves whether or not you are a shallow person

[kelpel]

If they're honest. People talk a lot of shit on here (and everywhere) about what they think is hot... which is usually what they think everyone else will approve of... and I know that's not necessarily all of what they appreciate.

[aramis_15]

true but there should be no reason to lie about it. I feel that both are important.....that is about the closest thing to a right answer even though there really isn't one

[kelpel]

I kind of went off on a tangent in my head when this question was raised and kinda drifted askew, as far as the topic. What led to this...

Of course people will mostly say "Personailty" because that's what you're supposed to say. Some people, mostly young men, will say "looks" and make some jackass(which they probably would admit themself) comment about "hot chicks".

THEN I thought about how silly that is `cause I know guys appreciate more than what is considered hot in today's media.

Yeah, tangent, sorry.

[kelpel]

By the way, I said personality. Honestly, for me, a person can be very attractive in the looks department, but all that can be completely shattered when they open their mouth.

[aramis_15]

Too true......I agree 100%. But since I am not as young I believe that personality is the largest factor.....in some cases the only factor when picking out a suitable person

[kelpel]

I'm older than you. :D

[aramis_15]

Who isn't I'm only 25 not like I'm a senior citizen yet

[gonzo23]

I'm shallow to a point, looks want me wanna meet the person, but personality will make me wanna stay friends with 'em...

[kelpel]

Who isn't I'm only 25 not like I'm a senior citizen yet
Believe it or not there are a lot of people older than 30. :p

I thought you meant "not as young" specifically towards me.

[aramis_15]

Oh no not at all. But if you notice the younger guys will tend to say looks unless someone says differently.....

[XxX Kristy XxX]

I used to go by looks more but I have changed. It is all about the personality for me. I want someone who has a great one and makes me feel comfortable with them. Looks only goes so far.

[aramis_15]

So you are saying that looks doesn't factor in to your decision

[OrngePlasticTree]

personality, altho initial attraction, obviously is based solely around looks.

[genius@large]

I must play the devils advocate. Looks are more important, along with pheromones - natures physical draw... mind you this is looks weightiest and most important role. The mind is the field where the war of love is to be fought and won.

[Guy]

heres the real question, would you rather marry the dumbest person in the world, or the ugliest person in the world

[aramis_15]

You say that but no matter how good someone looks if the personality is jacked then it may not last for more than fleeting moment

[xxplicitgrooves]

Well this question was geared toward anything you wanted it to be toward. I personal feel that both factors are equally important in either situation. I feel that looks will get a persons foot in the door....and that personality carries it the rest of the way. See a one night stand can be come more if that person has that correct mix.....or a sexy chic can become a one night stand due to her flaws in the personality department.....see what I meani feel ya

[xxplicitgrooves]

Originally Posted by kelpel
If they're honest. People talk a lot of shit on here (and everywhere) about what they think is hot... which is usually what they think everyone else will approve of... and I know that's not necessarily all of what they appreciate so true,

[aramis_15]

It all depends on the personality....but if the ugly one had a great personality...well then I'd have to take the dumb one.....lol...j/k how ugly are we talking

[xxplicitgrooves]

i dont thinki wanna know. i dont think im anything special, but i try to finde someobe i feel whos better looking than myself.............

[aramis_15]

As long as I don't have to double bag it(one for her and one for me just in case hers falls off)lol

[xxplicitgrooves]

haha, dayum, thats bad

[aramis_15]

Yeah but that is what I consider a mercy fuck and I really don't do those any more unless the party is truely deserving....well that and doesn't mind the bags...lol

[krystal]

oh dear...............can someone please tell me what you have to do to be concidered a mercy fuck.........I've never heard of it

[aramis_15]

A mercy fuck is a term given to a person who is less attractive. Usually it is given out due to a slow night at the club......too drunk to hit on someone better.....or just down right pity. After a the mercy fuck takes place all knowledge of the incident is denied and as far as anyone is concerned it never happened.....well except the mercy fuck(whoever they maybe) they always seem to remember...and remind you later....

[Plurizma]

Every time I touch myself its a mercy fuck! I'm so tired of peanut butter!

[krystal]

ewwwwwwwwww that is bad...........why even take them home in the first place.........any smart person would just have a backup booty call, to call in times of need like that

[Plurizma]

I think I'm gonna start cruising the trailor parks again!

[xxplicitgrooves]

oh dear...............can someone please tell me what you have to do to be concidered a mercy fuck.........I've never heard of it
me either, hahahaha , im mad at that. rofl

[xxplicitgrooves]

A mercy fuck is a term given to a person who is less attractive. Usually it is given out due to a slow night at the club......too drunk to hit on someone better.....or just down right pity. After a the mercy fuck takes place all knowledge of the incident is denied and as far as anyone is concerned it never happened.....well except the mercy fuck(whoever they maybe) they always seem to remember...and remind you later....

haha, im not that ugly, thx God

[krystal]

hahahaha

[krystal]

I hope i'm not that ugly

[aramis_15]

It is only employed in emergency situations. It is used as a last resort....because the mercy fuckee may turn out to be nuts....and then you have some weird ugly person stalking you......been there done that.....so use at own risk

[SXAngelXS]

i have to say that personality is much more important.... i am not saying that i dont like when someone looks good, because that is usually the first attraction when you first see someone. but i had a boyfriend for over a year that i was with based on personality alone.... so i think personality is much more important.

[aramis_15]

nah you are cute