masturbating after sex

[cosmobaby1]

dancinmike asked that mastubation question, and it got me to thinking about this guy I used to date. I always felt like a total schlep because I had to whack off (girl style) while he was in the bathroom.

Is it weird to masturbate after sex? I mean, like say you're in the sack with somebody, and you are really enjoying it, but it doesn't quite get you to that point, and you quietly finish up by yourself, while they're takin a piss. Is that weird? Is that wrong?

Jeez, maybe I shouldn't have asked this question.

[xxplicitgrooves]

uhh, hmmmm, well i dont know if thats wrong or not. i mean im not dissin your man, but well, im me to chat on that one. cause i dont want to post somethin and it sounds negitive, and im not tryin to be

[cosmobaby1]

oh I dumped him, you can say whatever you want.

[JesterC420]

HE SUCKED OBVIOUSLY!!!!!!!
Never ever leave a woman unsatisfied from sex!!!

[sunnie]

its not weird at all :) its normal to want to get off lol especially if buddy hasnt quite done his job

[OrngePlasticTree]

yeah guys should always make sure u get at least one.

[sunnie]

right sometimes guys are really selfish and dont

[cosmobaby1]

After being with Nick, the one who could actually get me off, and then going out with this guy, who shall remain nameless, I have to say I am worse now than I was. I mean, if I had never known that I could, then I wouldn't be as worried, but now I know what its like, and I'm all depressed, and stuff.

Its like going to a 5 star restaurant, being waited on hand and foot, one day, and then being forced to eat McDonald's the next.

Well, no more! I'm holding out for a full-service, filet-mignon kinda man! If you can't give me what I need, then don't bother me!!!

*looks around*

Is that mean?

[sunnie]

have you ever tried being with a girl?

[DjStephenDaniel]

well that is pretty bad that he could never...EVEN ONCE get you off...but then again it is 10 times harder to make a girl reach orgasm during sex than a guy...you just gotta be good to get a girl to do it.

[krystal]

yeah guys should always make sure u get at least one.hahaha too damn bad the rest of the male population doesn't feel that way

[kelpel]

Sometimes it just has to be done. Better if he does it for you, but you gotta do what ya gotta do.

[krystal]

most def agree with kelli

[OrngePlasticTree]

hahaha too damn bad the rest of the male population doesn't feel that wayin the words of jim carey in the cable guy..."its rare that people take full advantage of my services" (or something to that effect)

[krystal]

hahaha

[TwAkRoX]

well that is pretty bad that he could never...EVEN ONCE get you off...but then again it is 10 times harder to make a girl reach orgasm during sex than a guy...you just gotta be good to get a girl to do it.

see....thats some bullshit right there....every time i have sex the girl gets off at least 2 or 3 times if not more....and i only get off once...now that to me is unfair....fucken world...:moon:

[sunnie]

umm..how many guys really can cum twice..its pretty much they cum and then go limp

[OrngePlasticTree]

if i dont have to worry about pullin out or changin a condom, im good.

[krystal]

umm..how many guys really can cum twice..its pretty much they cum and then go limphehehe yes indeed

[TwAkRoX]

meh...that aint really true either....i usually get off and keep goin...i may bitch...but goddammit i do something about it too:D

[Kujo]

hehehe yes indeed
not yours tho... :rolleyes:

[xxplicitgrooves]

umm..how many guys really can cum twice..its pretty much they cum and then go limp
theres alot of info, i should share with my fellow man, about giving pleasure in bed. just gotta know how to work it, to some work it better. on an average i might be 2 hrs or so before i get a first nut, and still can go. but i aint for everyone to have, but i learned alt about my body, how to back away from my moment, muscle control, different angles that give more penetration, and pleasure(male /female) , i mean the list goes on u peeps may want to give this kind of stuff thoughts. all kind of 4play games and body teasers.

im all about givin some plasure.

[cosmobaby1]

see....thats some bullshit right there....every time i have sex the girl gets off at least 2 or 3 times if not more....and i only get off once...now that to me is unfair....fucken world...:moon:

Honey. I hate to tell you, but there is a very high probability that some of the women you are sleeping with are faking it. If she doesn't look you in the eye and say, "I'M COMING" without you whining into her ear "did you? did you?",.......SHE DIDN"T COME! I'm not trying to be a bitch, but it is highly possible that you are dating nice girls, and nice girls don't want to hurt your feelings.

Maybe they're just like me and are tired of trying!

Maybe you have magic fingers, and a motorized tongue, and they're all telling the truth! If thats so, then you and I are now engaged to be married!

Trust me, I faked it for 5 years with, well we just won't say how many different men. Yeah I tried a few girls, and thouroughly enjoyed myself. Didn't come.

*looks around*

Really! Until I met Nick, it was a huge source of stress for me. But even with Nick, I never came "2 or 3 times if not more". Not in one session! Plus, I know this is in no way a way to measure a man's skill in bed, but Nick was hung like a horse, and he's Italian! And he had a whole box full of toys, too!

I have since invested in one of the ones that vibrates. Its amazing.

I have one particular guy in mind to be my "full-service" man, and hopefully soon, things will work out. Until then, its just me, Jr. and an over-head poster of Vin.

Wish me luck.

[Black Lotus]

[QUOTE=cosmobaby1] Maybe they're just like me and are tired of trying!..../QUOTE]



I second that.....tired of lying too.

[OrngePlasticTree]

Honey. I hate to tell you, but there is a very high probability that some of the women you are sleeping with are faking it. If she doesn't look you in the eye and say, "I'M COMING" without you whining into her ear "did you? did you?",.......SHE DIDN"T COME! I'm not trying to be a bitch, but it is highly possible that you are dating nice girls, and nice girls don't want to hurt your feelings.

Maybe they're just like me and are tired of trying!

Maybe you have magic fingers, and a motorized tongue, and they're all telling the truth! If thats so, then you and I are now engaged to be married!

Trust me, I faked it for 5 years with, well we just won't say how many different men. Yeah I tried a few girls, and thouroughly enjoyed myself. Didn't come.

*looks around*

Really! Until I met Nick, it was a huge source of stress for me. But even with Nick, I never came "2 or 3 times if not more". Not in one session! Plus, I know this is in no way a way to measure a man's skill in bed, but Nick was hung like a horse, and he's Italian! And he had a whole box full of toys, too!

I have since invested in one of the ones that vibrates. Its amazing.

I have one particular guy in mind to be my "full-service" man, and hopefully soon, things will work out. Until then, its just me, Jr. and an over-head poster of Vin.

Wish me luck.*tear* how sad.

[SXAngelXS]

maybe you should talk to the person, because you shouldnt feel the need to hide that from them..... not to mention maybe you should let them know you would like to get yours sometimes!!! hehe

[xxplicitgrooves]

hmmm, how interesting, guys i mean come on, a large endowment is always good, but erryone aint blessed, but that done exempt 1 from pleasing his/partner, sense this in target to str8 men, dont be afraid to ask, what gives her pleasure, or how she likes it done, it takes nothin for a guy to cum, but be sure shes being pleased.

guys dont always go for a quick nut. take time with her, explore her body search her spots, dont be afraid to try different things, and toys are cool, try some,.....theres alot of stuff, some offers daul action, and yes they are for str8 guys, so dont be weary.

communicate.

[sunnie]

is it just me or does this guy sound like a YM magazine?

hmmm, how interesting, guys i mean come on, a large endowment is always good, but erryone aint blessed, but that done exempt 1 from pleasing his/partner, sense this in target to str8 men, dont be afraid to ask, what gives her pleasure, or how she likes it done, it takes nothin for a guy to cum, but be sure shes being pleased.

guys dont always go for a quick nut. take time with her, explore her body search her spots, dont be afraid to try different things, and toys are cool, try some,.....theres alot of stuff, some offers daul action, and yes they are for str8 guys, so dont be weary.

communicate.

[cosmobaby1]

Yeah. YM magazine after they fired all its proof-readers!

I'm just playing.

Anyways.....I really don't feel the need to "be honest" with the personI just broke up with, since I didn't actually break up with him for not pushing my buttons, so to speak, and telling him that he sucked in bed wouldn't kinda make me feel like a meanie.

I think I'll be okay until the person I want comes along, or God sends somebody my way that I need to be with. But this fucking sucks having a crush on somebody and being too chicken shit to say anything about it. Plus, he's kinda friends, or something, with the guy I just dumped. Once again, that's not why I dumped him. I don't think that the guy I'm interested in would really be my type, anyway.

So my milkshake ain't bringin' shit to the yard.

[OrngePlasticTree]

s'what 4play is for.

[xxplicitgrooves]

But this fucking sucks having a crush on somebody and being too chicken shit to say anything about it
i feel ya on that one in a big way

[OrngePlasticTree]

k i just read that thread all over again... who said that and where???

[xxplicitgrooves]

Yeah. YM magazine after they fired all its proof-readers!

I'm just playing.

Anyways.....I really don't feel the need to "be honest" with the personI just broke up with, since I didn't actually break up with him for not pushing my buttons, so to speak, and telling him that he sucked in bed wouldn't kinda make me feel like a meanie.

I think I'll be okay until the person I want comes along, or God sends somebody my way that I need to be with. But this fucking sucks having a crush on somebody and being too chicken shit to say anything about it. Plus, he's kinda friends, or something, with the guy I just dumped. Once again, that's not why I dumped him. I don't think that the guy I'm interested in would really be my type, anyway.

So my milkshake ain't bringin' shit to the yard.
^^^, its in there

[OrngePlasticTree]

whatsa milkshake?

[cosmobaby1]

Nevermind. To be totally honest I am not even sure....but I think it refers to a young female's sex appeal.

[gonzo23]

whatsa milkshake?I was thinkin' the same thing

[xxplicitgrooves]

it tastes better than yours

such a silly song, but its top 40

[*StuNNeR*]

But this fucking sucks having a crush on somebody and being too chicken shit to say anything about it
i feel ya on that one in a big way
yep, been there many times :confused:

[xxplicitgrooves]

im so lonely, yet im to shy i guess to ask a guy out

[OrngePlasticTree]

im gettin my balls back, and bein able to talk to gurls again.

[xxplicitgrooves]

lucky u

[Hypnotic]

all i can say is every girl ive ever slept with has gotten off jus fine. its no fun unless you both get off. but thats jus my 2 cents

[xxplicitgrooves]

2 cents huh, that says alot

[heyraver]

umm..how many guys really can cum twice..its pretty much they cum and then go limp

That is sooo not true, I can cum more than once in a row thank you VERY much.

And no masturbating after sex is not wrong I have had to do it my fair share of times. If your partner can't get it done, why should you suffer?

[xxplicitgrooves]

i can cum more than once,

Originally Posted by sunnie
umm..how many guys really can cum twice..its pretty much they cum and then go limp such a habit of dry jacking causes that

[aramis_15]

Well the cumming more than once is mainly a person to person thing and situation. There are time when I go all damn night and not a single drop....but there are other times....mainly in the 4 months from now......that I go quick and then be ready for another round. Also I advise cosmosbaby......just do it the worse thing that can happen is they say no....is it really that damaging to be told no....if it is then abandon all hope of attaining that person....and move on

[xxplicitgrooves]

well for me, after being played like a fool, im just scrrd of being hrut. ity, but cant help it. im slowing comming around

[aramis_15]

I can understand that but there is no reason to subject yourself to solitude just because of fear. It's something that needs to happen.....just don't over think things....be like Nike...just do it

[liquiddrawp]

If you ask me, I'd say masterbation after sex if perfectly alright. But why hide it? no doubt about it, your dude would love to watch.

Maybe you should just tell him that he sucks and that he's being selfish. Thats how I finally learned. And if he's the man your lookin for, he'll realize he should focus on your needs because he know he'll be getting his shortly.

maybe it's just me but I'd rather give than receive.
I wish I had me a bucket full of pussy right about now. Sit back and have a feast

o and yes ladies I can cum more than once, twice, and maybe three times in a session.

[xxplicitgrooves]

I can understand that but there is no reason to subject yourself to solitude just because of fear. It's something that needs to happen.....just don't over think things....be like Nike...just do it
im workin on it. i know i cut up alot on here, but i feel liberal, as to if i was inperson, i wouldnt be half as silly unless i really knew a person. but im gettin there. i feel so far away sometimes, but im gettin there