PartyKid
11-25-2003, 12:45 AM
By Vanessa Burton
Whereas some men have a hard time getting their women to lust after them on a constant basis, other guys have an even harder time trying to fend their insatiable women off their members. That's right, there are plenty of women in the world who love sex even more than the next guy -- and no, they're not really men disguised as women either.
Some women become so engrossed with sex that they're sometimes unable to concentrate on anything else. Believe it or not, the theory that men think about sex much more often than women is not always the case.
So how can you tell if a woman is obsessed with sex? Better yet, how do you get her home number when you find out that she is? Well, as for the latter question, I can't really help you there, but I can help you figure out whether or not she's a sex fiend.
ooh, who's that?
When you and your lady friend go out on the town together, are her eyes constantly checking out all the men in the given establishment? Now don't get me wrong, there are those women who just love to have every penis standing at attention when they walk into a room, and not necessarily because they want to wrap their mouth around them all.
But there are gals that devour men with their eyes because they are sizing up what those given gentlemen might be like in bed… or in the bathroom. Keep your eye on her; if she constantly keeps "eye flirting" with other guys, it may not simply be harmless attention seeking. And if she's with you, why is she flirting with other men anyway? Because her appetite is probably not sated.
more sex, more sex
If you have sex with a woman, not once, not twice, but thrice, count 'em three times on a given night, and she's still trying to hump you like a bunny rabbit in mating season while you're trying to wander off into dreamland, then it's possible that she really can't get enough of sex -- or you for that matter.
Now it must be a blow to a man's ego if he's given it his all and yet she's still raring to go for more. So whereas most guys think that having a woman that always wants to have sex would be the equivalent of owning a house full of diamonds, guys whose libidos are not quite overloaded with testosterone would disagree.
why is she like this?
Confuses sex for love
Some women are under the mistaken impression that sex equals love, and use sex compulsively as a means of gaining power and love. They lack emotional intimacy and bounce from one partner to the next or engage in sex with multiple partners simultaneously.
Traumatic experience
Sometimes, women use sex as a means for masking pain. And like any psychotherapist would aver, these women likely suffered childhood abandonment, abuse or some sort of family dysfunction (this does not insinuate that every woman from a broken home is promiscuous, so don't be ridiculous).
Inadequacy
Some women feel they are unworthy and unable to be loved by anyone, and as I mentioned before, they feel that sex somehow furnishes them with that emotional intimacy, at least momentarily.
An addiction
Sex can become addictive for some women and even becomes a means of reducing stress. If these gals don't have a steady lover, they'll go out on the town hunting for their prey in order to attain their instant gratification.
Just wants it
You'd be hard pressed to find anything that compares to the feeling of an orgasm (even your own) and many women simply enjoy the feeling of that blissful moment. Yup, they just like sex -- it's that simple. Promiscuity is not a shoo-in with this prospect, but if you land a babe in constant heat, you better be fit and up for the challenge.
So how do you deal with this kind of woman? Next >>
dealing with the dame
What do you do if you happen to end up with a woman who loves sex more than shopping? How can you ensure that she won't spread her legs for the mailman if you take a business trip for more than two days? Well, perhaps bedroom toys could keep her company for a while, but as all women know, there's really nothing that measures up to the touch of a man's hand.
Keep the foreplay going, even when you're not around.
Call her up and enjoy some late night fun heating up the phone lines with your kinky talk about what you plan to do to her when you get back.
Give her a sealed envelope.
Before you leave, give her a sealed envelope and tell her not to open it until that night. What did you write? Well, you let her know how much you enjoyed penetrating her the night before, and how you enjoyed hearing her reach orgasm -- over and over again. And you also left specific instructions that she take a shower, put on her sexiest lingerie, and masturbate with her hands slowly (imagining they're yours, of course). After she reaches orgasm, she is instructed to call you and describe her orgasm in great detail, and as well, what she pictures you doing to her the second you walk through the door.
Lavish her with kinky photos.
Now I'm not referring to porno-like photography. But if you know that she loves your eyes, take a close-up picture of your eyes and write something creative on the back of the photo. Obviously, she could be in absolute lust with your member, but you get the general idea.
she loves sex too much if...
The following is a list of giveaway signs that she might love sex too much:
1. She has an exclusive membership at the XXX-Rated Movie Shop.
2. Her conversations always revert back to sex, even when talking to her grandparents.
3. She's slept with more than 25 guys, and she's only 25 years old.
4. She owns every piece of sexual paraphernalia known to man (and some not yet known to man).
5. She brings you to a sex shop and is on a first name basis with all the salespeople.
6. She makes a blatant sexual movie with you, distributes it about town and claims it was "stolen" (sorry Pam).
7. She admits, "Hey, I'm not a sl*t, I just like having sex with lots of different men."
Okay, so that last list was meant to be a somewhat funny take on the issue, but if you are about to engage in a relationship with a woman who loves sex excessively, make sure that you love it just as much.
Sexual compatibility is just as important as communication and trust, and just like you wouldn't want to be with a woman that never wants to spread her love for you, some guys also don't want a girl who always wants it. If there were no challenge, would it still be fun? Okay, it would, but for how long?
So go out there and find yourself a woman who is just as horny and willing to communicate as you are and work towards a great relationship, and if that doesn't work out, then enjoy great marathon sex.
Until next time, remember to always protect yourself from STDs and becoming a daddy before you're ready.
Protect yourselves at all time, and start doing that by getting yourself some free condoms.
Whereas some men have a hard time getting their women to lust after them on a constant basis, other guys have an even harder time trying to fend their insatiable women off their members. That's right, there are plenty of women in the world who love sex even more than the next guy -- and no, they're not really men disguised as women either.
Some women become so engrossed with sex that they're sometimes unable to concentrate on anything else. Believe it or not, the theory that men think about sex much more often than women is not always the case.
So how can you tell if a woman is obsessed with sex? Better yet, how do you get her home number when you find out that she is? Well, as for the latter question, I can't really help you there, but I can help you figure out whether or not she's a sex fiend.
ooh, who's that?
When you and your lady friend go out on the town together, are her eyes constantly checking out all the men in the given establishment? Now don't get me wrong, there are those women who just love to have every penis standing at attention when they walk into a room, and not necessarily because they want to wrap their mouth around them all.
But there are gals that devour men with their eyes because they are sizing up what those given gentlemen might be like in bed… or in the bathroom. Keep your eye on her; if she constantly keeps "eye flirting" with other guys, it may not simply be harmless attention seeking. And if she's with you, why is she flirting with other men anyway? Because her appetite is probably not sated.
more sex, more sex
If you have sex with a woman, not once, not twice, but thrice, count 'em three times on a given night, and she's still trying to hump you like a bunny rabbit in mating season while you're trying to wander off into dreamland, then it's possible that she really can't get enough of sex -- or you for that matter.
Now it must be a blow to a man's ego if he's given it his all and yet she's still raring to go for more. So whereas most guys think that having a woman that always wants to have sex would be the equivalent of owning a house full of diamonds, guys whose libidos are not quite overloaded with testosterone would disagree.
why is she like this?
Confuses sex for love
Some women are under the mistaken impression that sex equals love, and use sex compulsively as a means of gaining power and love. They lack emotional intimacy and bounce from one partner to the next or engage in sex with multiple partners simultaneously.
Traumatic experience
Sometimes, women use sex as a means for masking pain. And like any psychotherapist would aver, these women likely suffered childhood abandonment, abuse or some sort of family dysfunction (this does not insinuate that every woman from a broken home is promiscuous, so don't be ridiculous).
Inadequacy
Some women feel they are unworthy and unable to be loved by anyone, and as I mentioned before, they feel that sex somehow furnishes them with that emotional intimacy, at least momentarily.
An addiction
Sex can become addictive for some women and even becomes a means of reducing stress. If these gals don't have a steady lover, they'll go out on the town hunting for their prey in order to attain their instant gratification.
Just wants it
You'd be hard pressed to find anything that compares to the feeling of an orgasm (even your own) and many women simply enjoy the feeling of that blissful moment. Yup, they just like sex -- it's that simple. Promiscuity is not a shoo-in with this prospect, but if you land a babe in constant heat, you better be fit and up for the challenge.
So how do you deal with this kind of woman? Next >>
dealing with the dame
What do you do if you happen to end up with a woman who loves sex more than shopping? How can you ensure that she won't spread her legs for the mailman if you take a business trip for more than two days? Well, perhaps bedroom toys could keep her company for a while, but as all women know, there's really nothing that measures up to the touch of a man's hand.
Keep the foreplay going, even when you're not around.
Call her up and enjoy some late night fun heating up the phone lines with your kinky talk about what you plan to do to her when you get back.
Give her a sealed envelope.
Before you leave, give her a sealed envelope and tell her not to open it until that night. What did you write? Well, you let her know how much you enjoyed penetrating her the night before, and how you enjoyed hearing her reach orgasm -- over and over again. And you also left specific instructions that she take a shower, put on her sexiest lingerie, and masturbate with her hands slowly (imagining they're yours, of course). After she reaches orgasm, she is instructed to call you and describe her orgasm in great detail, and as well, what she pictures you doing to her the second you walk through the door.
Lavish her with kinky photos.
Now I'm not referring to porno-like photography. But if you know that she loves your eyes, take a close-up picture of your eyes and write something creative on the back of the photo. Obviously, she could be in absolute lust with your member, but you get the general idea.
she loves sex too much if...
The following is a list of giveaway signs that she might love sex too much:
1. She has an exclusive membership at the XXX-Rated Movie Shop.
2. Her conversations always revert back to sex, even when talking to her grandparents.
3. She's slept with more than 25 guys, and she's only 25 years old.
4. She owns every piece of sexual paraphernalia known to man (and some not yet known to man).
5. She brings you to a sex shop and is on a first name basis with all the salespeople.
6. She makes a blatant sexual movie with you, distributes it about town and claims it was "stolen" (sorry Pam).
7. She admits, "Hey, I'm not a sl*t, I just like having sex with lots of different men."
Okay, so that last list was meant to be a somewhat funny take on the issue, but if you are about to engage in a relationship with a woman who loves sex excessively, make sure that you love it just as much.
Sexual compatibility is just as important as communication and trust, and just like you wouldn't want to be with a woman that never wants to spread her love for you, some guys also don't want a girl who always wants it. If there were no challenge, would it still be fun? Okay, it would, but for how long?
So go out there and find yourself a woman who is just as horny and willing to communicate as you are and work towards a great relationship, and if that doesn't work out, then enjoy great marathon sex.
Until next time, remember to always protect yourself from STDs and becoming a daddy before you're ready.
Protect yourselves at all time, and start doing that by getting yourself some free condoms.