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Ryan The Robot
11-19-2003, 03:23 PM
Anyone ever heard the phrase "theres two sides to every story, and somewhere in the middle, theres the truth"? I hate how things happen, and somehow im always the bad person. And someone else is always the victim. Of course they are going to seem like the victim, they are the person telling everyone what is going on. Some of us just dont think its other peoples buissness, and dont need to tell everyone what is going on. Some of us dont need to tell people "its ok, youll be fine". I hate how people always make the person that the first person talks about out to be the criminal when the other person plays the victim, when in all actuality, its both sides being dumb and causing drama. Its like crying sheep, its not all true. And its not all exactly what happened, of course when someone goes crying to others about something that hurts them, of course they are going to leave out the parts of the story that they did wrong in, of course they are only going to mention the things that make them look like the victim. I laugh at this. Because if anyone is dumb enough to fall for someone calling sheep, w/o hearing BOTH sides of what happened, they are truely ignorant. And thats sad.

Just remember.

Make judgements on what you know from all angles, not just from what you hear from one.

Ryan The Robot
11-19-2003, 03:24 PM
and to that person dragging my name through the mud just to get sympathy and have people side w/ you.


youre one sad individual.

vapor
11-19-2003, 03:25 PM
crying WOLF...



but i know what you mean...

Ryan The Robot
11-19-2003, 03:26 PM
damn, i need sleep...

lol, thanks for correcting that Will, too bad im too lazy to fix it.

gnight

xChrisx
11-19-2003, 03:30 PM
There aint no innocent victims. Lay waste to all involved and move on.

Ryan The Robot
11-19-2003, 03:33 PM
Impossible, apparently because i cant be intersested in anyone i know w/o said person basicly being like "hey, i claim that person".

but now that ive ranted, im leaving this post to linger and hope people make note of what im saying.

xChrisx
11-19-2003, 03:50 PM
so perhaps if someone is claiming someone else stop and think.. well how good a friend is this person to me.. and if they arent really all that great then go for it anyways

OriginalSin
11-19-2003, 04:03 PM
i think that instead of everyone trying to get ppl to be "on thier side", the two ppl in conflict should just take responsability for thier actions....

Ryan The Robot
11-19-2003, 06:12 PM
ive ALWAYS taken responsiblity for my actions, and never denied something that happened. Ive appologized countless times about situations i was in the wrong. That cant be denied. Im just tired of someone posting on various message boards trash talking me on an open forum like its everyones buissness, yet leaving out the immature, childish, and selfish acts said person did.

loneknight
11-19-2003, 07:08 PM
none is ever innocent but i know how you feel been through it many times but i have the prob of people belive the other person then the other person shows there true colors so the other always comes back to me and wants to say sorry and on that note i tell em to fuck em selfs hehehe

lilcupcakesjo
11-20-2003, 12:18 AM
ive ALWAYS taken responsiblity for my actions, and never denied something that happened. Ive appologized countless times about situations i was in the wrong. That cant be denied. Im just tired of someone posting on various message boards trash talking me on an open forum like its everyones buissness, yet leaving out the immature, childish, and selfish acts said person did.

That is why you don't hang out with little kids Ryan. You should know better. If this is the way the person wants to act than don't be involved with he/she anymore. It's really very simple. Someone makes you angry you tell them once, but if they do it again cut their ass loose. Stop getting sucked back in and move on.

Johanna

Kibler
11-20-2003, 12:46 AM
THE SHEEP ARE COMING THE SHEEP ARE COMING SAVE US AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH

jojobee
11-20-2003, 01:46 AM
ehhh...kill em all http://smilies.jeeptalk.org/contrib/ut1/redeemerwhore.gif

or break their asses...whichever

Kibler
11-20-2003, 02:13 AM
NOT THE POOR SHEEP! LET THEM LIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIVE!

vapor
11-20-2003, 04:24 AM
sheep only cry when loneknoght and turbo are finshed with them.....


baby, i only have eyes for ewe.




why do farmers fuck sheep on the edge of a cliff? so the sheep push back.

FriskE
11-20-2003, 10:23 PM
ive ALWAYS taken responsiblity for my actions, and never denied something that happened. Ive appologized countless times about situations i was in the wrong. That cant be denied. Im just tired of someone posting on various message boards trash talking me on an open forum like its everyones buissness, yet leaving out the immature, childish, and selfish acts said person did.
you mean kinda like what YOU are doing in this thread??:rolleyes:

Ryan The Robot
11-21-2003, 11:50 AM
you mean kinda like what YOU are doing in this thread??:rolleyes:
how else am i supposed to defend myself to the countless people that have heard bad things about me, yet wont say anything to me about it?

Liquidshadows
11-21-2003, 01:26 PM
how else am i supposed to defend myself to the countless people that have heard bad things about me, yet wont say anything to me about it?
Why worry about the opinions of people stupid enough to judge you based on gossip?

FriskE
11-21-2003, 02:31 PM
Why worry about the opinions of people stupid enough to judge you based on gossip?
he has a point....

Liquidshadows
11-21-2003, 02:35 PM
;)

loneknight
11-22-2003, 04:34 PM
dude vapewhore that was a fucked up message coming from a fucked up person how can i be surprised and herei thought you forgot about me i feel so special

xxplicitgrooves
11-26-2003, 06:58 AM
whodini did as song back in the day, called you gotta big mouth.


someone else picked it up, and did a song called you talk to much. both songs were very comical, but they had a valid point. that peeps need to apply.

u shouldnt tell everything, for your own good, and who ever hears it, its for their good. u tell someone to confide. but they might not be able to handle what u told them, they goina tell someone else, but thats where it gets twisted, even if they didnt mean to, gossip kills.

if u tell me, i might listen alright, come to me with your gossip, i know how to deal with ya:twak:

lilpunkkid
11-26-2003, 01:17 PM
i think its childish when people go around running their mouths about someone to make themselves look like the victum and make the other person look like a jackass, but i guess that is the way poeple are sometimes.

like chris said "There aint no innocent victims"

xxplicitgrooves
11-26-2003, 03:53 PM
i learned if someone comes up to you tellin folks business, and talkin about people, you can bet yourlife that they talkin about you.