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Destinee

10-28-2003, 10:00 PM

this has been boggleing my mind..

OK let me get this straight....A CLEAN STRIPPER...lol Not a nasty one...basically what im trying to say is..would you date her if you really liked her alot then found out she was a stripper...would that stop you from dating her?

some ppl say that they wouldnt date a stripper. some say they would. just wondering who would and who wouldnt...and if a answer isnt provided please explain.

FrootLoop

10-28-2003, 10:07 PM

it all depends on the girl. i wouldn't date one that dieases and stuff.

Wrex Barrett

10-28-2003, 10:20 PM

I have dated quite a few strippers/dancers! Ofcourse you wouldnt wanna date a nasty one, but those are very obvious! I warn anyone who thinks that it would be so cool that most strippers are looking to be house wives, looking for someone to take car of them so they dont have to dance any longer!

krystal

10-28-2003, 10:37 PM

I've dated a few and plus I used to dance as well but I think it def depends on the girl...............but not all are looking to be housewives but many not all do want to be taken care of

BlackSunEmperor

10-28-2003, 10:58 PM

Never again... keeping up a relationship with a dancer means trusting your naked girlfriend around hundreds of men with wads of cash... I don't care how secure you are... it'll get to you eventually

I learned my lesson and am in the process of learning another

euphoric

10-28-2003, 11:05 PM

i agree with blacksunemperor....

i would never date a stripper (male or female) for the simple fact that I couldn't deal with someone else seeing something that should be for my eyes only..

SXAngelXS

10-28-2003, 11:29 PM

I am going to have to agree with what ya'll said..... i guess some people could handle it, but i couldnt. i would never wasnt someone else seeing what i come home to. or i guess what is mine! i dont know i dont think i would want someone else seeing someone i care about so much with no clothes on

maxim303

10-28-2003, 11:36 PM

really depends on the person.. their vocation is secondary..

J-Spin

10-28-2003, 11:38 PM

as a former bouncer...i have dated dancers...they are NOT all whores...school...single mothers..lots of valid reasons to dance. its good money.
j

XxX Kristy XxX

10-29-2003, 02:15 AM

I dont think bad things about strippers at all but I wouldnt date one. I just couldnt deal with my girl showing everything to someone else. That would be for me to see and only I.

w34s3L

10-29-2003, 02:26 AM

turbo

10-29-2003, 04:21 AM

Drastik

10-29-2003, 04:29 AM

I think i could get over the fact that other people get to see her if she's only giving it to me. If we clicked i'd deal. Hell it brings in money right least she's not living off. So as long as she is just showing and not playing than Yeah.

G_Baby

10-29-2003, 08:43 AM

ReDeYeJuNgLiSt

10-29-2003, 09:38 AM

time after time its been said ,it really depends on the girl.
How about this one though my brother is with a girl that they have a baby with each other.Question is wouls you want the mother of your child stripping. Me personally hell no

Section 8

10-29-2003, 12:59 PM

i have two good freinds that are dancers. one witch did come home with me to atl one day for the weekend. we dident date but we did have sex. after that we pertty much became freinds. the other one now works in atl. at the cheeta i think. her stage name might still be tapanga. someone say hi to her for me if you know her.hahahahah

even though i'm sure she doesn't go on this board at all, it's still pretty funny that you just announced to the whole interweb that you banged her

back to the topic - it def depends on the girl. but then again, i dunno how comfortable i'd be with it. not that i'm too possessive, just that i think there would have to be a good foundation of trust to date a stripper. but that's just me. plus, in all honesty, every guy i've known to date a stripper has gotten fucked over by them...

Chayla

10-29-2003, 01:47 PM

I agree with most of the others....it really depends on the person. I came really close to dancing at one point in time, but my man stuck by me and still would if I had fully gone through with it.

sunnie

10-29-2003, 01:51 PM

ive made out with strippers but ive never dated one..i dont think i could

loneknight

10-29-2003, 03:47 PM

well i look at it like this is doesnt matter about there job as long as your the one they want fuck it brings in money and you got someone really great as well thats all that matters

kristin

10-29-2003, 03:49 PM

I just got out of a relationship with a stripper, so obviously, yes I would. Probably would again, depending on the girl. My parting with my last girlfriend had nothing to do with her occupation, it was from personal differences...mainly from her end. As others here have said, they aren't all whores by any stretch of the imagination, and as for people seeing my girl naked...I'm of the opinion of "look all you want, I'm the one she comes home to."
I'm that way if they want to dress sexy too. Guys who don't let thier girlfriend dress up if they want to irk me...don't be so damn jealous, she's with you...if she wants to show off, let her and be proud you're with someone so sexy.
>end rant<

Sorry...tangent. But yes, if a girl is cool then if she strips, so what...
Why? Any nice, single strippers available right now? ;)

^^^^Agreed!!!
even though I am married, to a man. But in any case, if i was single and i had the oppurtunity to date a male stripper, i dont think that i would have a problem. never been in the situation, but def. have to agree with the statement that he/she is coming home to you. (glad i am married!!)

and the other part to this is TRUST, there has to be TRUST in a relationship or the relationship is going to fail.

Merlyn540

10-29-2003, 04:07 PM

i have two good freinds that are dancers. one witch did come home with me to atl one day for the weekend. we dident date but we did have sex. after that we pertty much became freinds. the other one now works in atl. at the cheeta i think. her stage name might still be tapanga. someone say hi to her for me if you know her.

no shit huh.... i was under the impression that she had settled down, got married, and quit dancing.

ohhh.... Topanga is my ex fiance stripper btw. and Turbo used to clean the floors at one of the clubs i spun for in NC.

So which one of the girls was it?

Destinee

10-29-2003, 07:37 PM

anyone who has a problem with dating a stripper has security issues.
who cares if other people see him/her naked. do you not look at naked pics of other people?
and you're probably just jealous that he/she makes more money dancing than you do at your "office job"
very nicely put......I dont know if I could personally strip..But Hell yeah it brings in mad cash flow....I agree with you, just about everyone looks at porn right? those girls have boyfriends too...And if you have trust in a relastionship, I dont think it should matter. thats just me.

xChrisx

10-29-2003, 11:24 PM

I would.. if she was hot.. cuz strippers make BANK

DiamondMaverick

10-30-2003, 12:42 AM

Okay...I didn't respond to this last night because some of the responses made me angry.

Let's through some issues here:

1. I dance, but that is not WHO i am by any stretch of the imagination. There is life outside of work. If you work at McDonald's are you a greasy money handler? Is that WHO you are by definition? Of course not.

2. I am NOT a whore or slutty. The number of guys I've slept with is less than the number of fingers on my hands. And I wouldn't call myself an exception among dancers...I would call myself an exception among ravers, or even most women/girls around my age though. Most women I meet are slutty or have been slutty, even though they won't admit it.

3. Since when did dancing become degrading yourself? I dance nude. Because I make good money that makes it degrading? No one touches and fondles me. I see attractive nude photos all the time...are those girls degrading themselves as well? Shiiiit, I see photos on Stillvapor and Plur of girls running around flashing and whatnot...are they degrading themselves for the sake of the camera? As a matter of fact, I walk around my damned house naked all the time...it's how I am most comfortable...let me guess...i am degrading myself for the pleasure of helping my furniture get off, right? Give me a break.

4. When you make a comment like 'I couldn't date a dancer because they are showing off what only I should see to others' , think about this:

I see many girls that flash at parties...would you not date them because all of your friends have seen her boobs before? (And a lotta y'all have seen other's gf's boobs before!) Come on now... I might dance, but I keep my damned clothes on when I'm in public places, and carry myself better than most women I meet.

Personally, I could definite date a female dancer. Now a male dancer...no. Generally (and yes i've met quite a few of them) they are either gay, bi, or just have a...greasy personality. eww. lol. but i'd take it on a case by case basis. judge a person by who they are, not what they do.

Airy

10-30-2003, 12:47 AM

turbo

10-30-2003, 12:56 AM

merlin you littel bitch. shut the fuck up. next time some drunk ass marine tries to steal your toys i wont help. so what the hell haooend to you too anyway. i know your in ga, but i caint find where you are. you out of the p's house yet.

krystal

10-30-2003, 03:41 AM

I most def agree with DiamondMaverick I used to dance and not all the girls are nasty,gold diggin,ignorant,drug addicted whores..............a job is a job no matter what you do and as long as you respect yourself nothing else matters

euphoric

10-30-2003, 01:13 PM

I dont flash people. i never said anything bad about strippers. just my opinion.

Kujo

10-30-2003, 02:06 PM

It would be pretty damn hard for me but I would do it if I had strong feelings for the girl and I thought I could still be happy in the relationship.

Section 8

10-30-2003, 02:45 PM

for me, i wouldn't mind the fact that they're up there naked, but it's the lapdance thing that i don't think i could handle...

Destinee

10-30-2003, 03:53 PM

Very well put......lol..we were all born naked right..lol....I thought that was funny..my friend told me that yesterday...haha...But I do believe that not all strippers are nasty and dirty. I have quite a FEW friends that are female dancers....and they are independent/go to school/ and they dont whore around in the club....just b/c there are VIP rooms dont mean shit, yeah you hear stories of ppl getting fucked or what not in the vip room, but NOTHING goes on in that room that the GIRL doesnt want to......So It all depends on the girl....DIAMONDMAVERICK....CHeck your pms...

Okay...I didn't respond to this last night because some of the responses made me angry.

Let's through some issues here:

1. I dance, but that is not WHO i am by any stretch of the imagination. There is life outside of work. If you work at McDonald's are you a greasy money handler? Is that WHO you are by definition? Of course not.

2. I am NOT a whore or slutty. The number of guys I've slept with is less than the number of fingers on my hands. And I wouldn't call myself an exception among dancers...I would call myself an exception among ravers, or even most women/girls around my age though. Most women I meet are slutty or have been slutty, even though they won't admit it.

3. Since when did dancing become degrading yourself? I dance nude. Because I make good money that makes it degrading? No one touches and fondles me. I see attractive nude photos all the time...are those girls degrading themselves as well? Shiiiit, I see photos on Stillvapor and Plur of girls running around flashing and whatnot...are they degrading themselves for the sake of the camera? As a matter of fact, I walk around my damned house naked all the time...it's how I am most comfortable...let me guess...i am degrading myself for the pleasure of helping my furniture get off, right? Give me a break.

4. When you make a comment like 'I couldn't date a dancer because they are showing off what only I should see to others' , think about this:

I see many girls that flash at parties...would you not date them because all of your friends have seen her boobs before? (And a lotta y'all have seen other's gf's boobs before!) Come on now... I might dance, but I keep my damned clothes on when I'm in public places, and carry myself better than most women I meet.

Personally, I could definite date a female dancer. Now a male dancer...no. Generally (and yes i've met quite a few of them) they are either gay, bi, or just have a...greasy personality. eww. lol. but i'd take it on a case by case basis. judge a person by who they are, not what they do.

Destinee

10-30-2003, 03:56 PM

for me, i wouldn't mind the fact that they're up there naked, but it's the lapdance thing that i don't think i could handle...
Have you ever gotten a lapdance at a strip club?

they arent allowed to touch the girls at all.....the bouncer is standing not to far away. and believe me they are watching every single move the guys make....If he even tries to touch her, the bouncer will jerk him up and throw his ass straight out of the club...they even walk around telling guys to keep their hands above the table, where the bouncer can see them at all times.....
'
BTW....Im not trying to jump your shit...im just asking....:)

Section 8

10-30-2003, 03:57 PM

i'm not even saying that i'd be worried about her screwing some other dude in a vip room, i'm saying i don't think i'd be fully comfortable knowing that my girl dry humps dudes all night

Destinee

10-30-2003, 04:03 PM

yeah...well......lol....I can feel ya on that...But then the TRust would come into play..if you have no trust you have no relationship...right? I am not trying to defend anyside....I am just trying to get everyones point of view on this subject...

say if you were dating a dancer, would you feel more comfortable, if you came to the club and saw her and watched what she did....or would that make it worse...

I kinda see it like this...if I was dating a dancer and I came to the club and saw her, i would kinda think its funny, b/c she is hustling MAD MONEY out of guys to just look....they cant touch..but look...and then she would come home with me...hahahah...tehee.

Section 8

10-30-2003, 04:10 PM

i dunno what i'd do, i've never dated a stripper so i don't know how i'd feel...

but i def hear you on the trust part.

Destinee

10-30-2003, 04:11 PM

yeah i havent either...tehee..

But I do believe that trust is a big issue....with dating a dancer...

Section 8

10-30-2003, 04:12 PM

with dating anyone;)

Destinee

10-30-2003, 04:17 PM

exactly

Kim

10-30-2003, 05:10 PM

*cough*someonehasnoroomtotalkabouttrustinthisthread*cough* Sluuuuuuut. ;) *tehee*

Karma

10-30-2003, 09:04 PM

Well, since I use to be a stripper, I would date one. But as with anyone, it really depends on the person.

I'm not gonna lie....abunch of strippers are crazy bitches, so you need to know who it is before you date them, or else you can have a pshyco whore on your hands, but thats with anyone also.

Merlyn540

10-31-2003, 11:54 AM

every stripper/ ex stripper I've ever dated have been nothing but trouble... way too much drama for me... I'm learning from my mistakes

DiamondMaverick

10-31-2003, 03:12 PM

i'm not even saying that i'd be worried about her screwing some other dude in a vip room, i'm saying i don't think i'd be fully comfortable knowing that my girl dry humps dudes all night
Lap dancing is illegal in Atlanta. I have never dry-humped a guy. That's just icky. We table dance meaning, standing in front of the dude...no contact. jeez.

Section 8

10-31-2003, 03:31 PM

oh really? i never knew that, i've never been to a strip club down here.

but now knowing that now, i think i'd be be able to handle dating a stripper. but like everyone else has said already, it all depends on the girl.:D

Kujo

10-31-2003, 03:35 PM

Lap dancing is illegal in Atlanta. I have never dry-humped a guy. That's just icky. We table dance meaning, standing in front of the dude...no contact. jeez.
Just because it's illegal doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

DiamondMaverick

10-31-2003, 05:27 PM

no, it doesn't... but i've been to most of the strip clubs in atlanta and have never witnessed a "lap" dance. i've bought many table dances tho! ;)

Hypnotic

11-02-2003, 12:34 AM

definately depends on the girl, but if youre not looking for a sserious relationship its kinda fun and refreshing, but the men with wads of cash thing would get to me eventually.

FrootLoop

11-02-2003, 10:07 PM

lol at bobdole. those sound like great morals to me.

kristin

11-03-2003, 03:48 PM

well i would fuck the hell out of a stripper without and condom but i wouldn't date one. i got morals you know?
dood you crack me up!!! i like your morals!:D

xChrisx

11-03-2003, 03:59 PM

after long thought id like to marry a stripper, quit my job and have her support me.

Chayla

11-03-2003, 05:04 PM

I've never been to the strip clubs in Atlanta, but I know that lapdances are legal in Nashville and they aren't that bad. Here in Chattanooga where I live the laws say that the customers have to stay 6 feet away from the dancers and they only go topless and not fully nude.

Topless showbars don't bring in nearly as much money, but some people would be more comfortable with their girl only going topless.

I agree with Diamond ... I know a lot of girls that are great people. Most of them aren't nasty.