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DjStephenDaniel
09-30-2003, 03:15 PM
I think that its wrong and unfair to judge girls by how many guys they've been wit. It's damn society that says that a girl is a slut if they have sex with multiple partners. Girls have hormones too. And if you have sex, you're a slut, and if you dont, you're a prude....its a trap..and lol..its unfair...srry girls....

sunnie
09-30-2003, 03:25 PM
lol

you know what i agree with you, guys who have sex with many girls get props for it girls get named for it its ridiculous

Section 8
09-30-2003, 04:03 PM
not really...

girls judge guys just as much as guys judge girls.

Wings
09-30-2003, 04:26 PM
I think PEOPLE should be judged for being skanky whores.

Not men or women in particular... just people.
Im not saying that i don't like some one who sleeps with lots of people...I just don't fuck them.

Mr. Silly
09-30-2003, 04:28 PM
Girls should be judged for having so much sex....because they could have a funky stench (which I'm not going near) or and STD (which I am NEVER going near).

Brian

Monk
09-30-2003, 04:29 PM
It doesnt matter if your a Guy or Girl, If u sleep around your a slut. And if you fuck anything that'll take you your a skanky whore.

Mr. Silly
09-30-2003, 04:31 PM
Yeah, guys are usually bigger sluts....I think :confused:

Brian

earthangel
09-30-2003, 04:45 PM
^very true... but girls are more manipulative i think...

it doesn't matter what your sex, or sexual preference is, ..if you sleep around just for the sex , than yes, you are a slut!

..but what about if you regret the things you did previously in life, then is it fair to move on & become a better person from learning from your mistakes?!!? i think so... as long as you stay true to yourself!!

Mr. Silly
09-30-2003, 05:01 PM
I guess if you changed your slutty ways and became a better person, and then yes you would be the almighty nonslut!!!:headbang:

Brian

Section 8
09-30-2003, 05:07 PM
..but what about if you regret the things you did previously in life, then is it fair to move on & become a better person from learning from your mistakes?!!? i think so... as long as you stay true to yourself!!
sad to say, but i don't think another person is gonna care if you've changed or not.

it's kinda like Chasing Amy.;)

DjStephenDaniel
09-30-2003, 05:53 PM
girls do judge guys a lot for how many girls they've had sex with...but other guys dont...girls think that other girls that sleep with multiple guys are trashy skanks...not excessivly, im talking like 10 guys or so...but if a guy has sex with 10 girls..its normal, its cool..its "not alot".

OrngePlasticTree
09-30-2003, 06:12 PM
yes.

Kujo
09-30-2003, 06:15 PM
Yes, girls should be judged by how many people they have had sex with and SO SHOULD GUYS. The only basis for this is safety. If we didn't have diseases, then neither men nor women should be judged. These days, It's too dangerous not to take this into account.

dr00
09-30-2003, 06:20 PM
i think people should stop worrying about what other people are doing so much :rolleyes:

Kujo
09-30-2003, 06:21 PM
i think people should stop worrying about what other people are doing so much :rolleyes:
Agreed, but when it can effect or END your life, there's a need to worry.

bob dole
09-30-2003, 06:45 PM
people in general should be judged by how many people they have sex with. not just girls. and the reason i keep saying why girls are viewed as sluts and guys are viewed as pigs and players is cuz girls use sex appeal for attention and degrade themselves. i dont feel like explaining it all again.

OrngePlasticTree
09-30-2003, 06:48 PM
yes. again.

Jadea
09-30-2003, 06:56 PM
I think PEOPLE should be judged for being skanky whores.

Not men or women in particular... just people.
Im not saying that i don't like some one who sleeps with lots of people...I just don't fuck them.

uh huh..thats what I'm sayin;) Miss u :-D

SXAngelXS
09-30-2003, 07:52 PM
i think unless how many people someone has slept with is going to personally effect you(like if you are in a situation where you might be sleeping with them) then it shouldnt matter..... people spend too much time judging other people. but i guess you do have to be careful these days.

Isis
09-30-2003, 08:22 PM
I can understand anybody protecting themselves based on what you feel comfortable with for your personal security.

But...

As far as judging anyone about anything, a problem arises because judging can be subjective. In other words, your judgements are based on your perceptions, motives, and understandings. This is why two people can judge the exact same situation and come up with different determinations. Since the judgments of man are therefore rooted in the "opinions" of man, no man's judgements can be taken as absolute or complete truth. This is the implied accusation behind every admonition not to judge. Who are YOU to judge? What makes you think YOUR judgements are sure? I don't think we have the right to judge ourselves much less anyone else.

earthangel
09-30-2003, 10:43 PM
...right on, Isis!! :D

Kujo
09-30-2003, 10:52 PM
I can understand anybody protecting themselves based on what you feel comfortable with for your personal security.

But...

As far as judging anyone about anything, a problem arises because judging can be subjective. In other words, your judgements are based on your perceptions, motives, and understandings. This is why two people can judge the exact same situation and come up with different determinations. Since the judgments of man are therefore rooted in the "opinions" of man, no man's judgements can be taken as absolute or complete truth. This is the implied accusation behind every admonition not to judge. Who are YOU to judge? What makes you think YOUR judgements are sure? I don't think we have the right to judge ourselves much less anyone else.


Not that type of judgement. People have to make judgement calls every day. Judgement is how people protect themselves.

bob dole
10-01-2003, 02:38 AM
orangeplastictree: lol, i kno right!?

sxangelxs: i believe it does matter if sumbody else is sleeping around. believe me, it effects you whether you do as well or not. there is no need for me to explain that, cuz i find it quite obvious why.

isis: good statement. bravo! the way i see it as far as judging people, well, judging is a strong word. i cant judge a person, but i can make assumptions of a person by knowing certain actions they make or have made in the past. if thats considered judging sumbody then so be it. alot of the time i just consider it me being skeptical or suspicious of sumone, not judging.

OrngePlasticTree
10-02-2003, 12:19 AM
lets just leave it at yes. just... yes.

cout<<"end thread"<<endl;

bob dole
10-02-2003, 09:44 PM
girls are all sluts. all of them. they all deserve to be judged because they are sluts. fuckin sluts. the world would be a better place without them!

sunnie
10-02-2003, 09:54 PM
someone is a little bitter

ZuBu_Mc
10-02-2003, 10:03 PM
double standards, it's a sad but true thing in the world today.

OrngePlasticTree
10-03-2003, 12:23 AM
girls are all sluts. all of them. they all deserve to be judged because they are sluts. fuckin sluts. the world would be a better place without them!i dunno about that.

bob dole
10-03-2003, 12:51 AM
i dunno about that.

lol, hey you called it. i just agreed

AvB
10-03-2003, 04:07 AM
I'm going to wander off into left field for this one....

*thinks: should girls be judged by how many guys they have sex with*

ah yes! I have an answer... you should not judge *pauses* a.... err... thats it! You shouldn't judge people at all. There .... thats all, I did it! I found the answer to this riddle

OrngePlasticTree
10-03-2003, 02:23 PM
lol, hey you called it. i just agreedyeah but without vagina, id be lost.

LitLaur
10-03-2003, 02:56 PM
Judgement is how people protect themselves.eh...judgement is more about how people make decisions about everything, how they perceive people, whether they should do something or not. It can lead to protecting yourself, but it isn't always how people protect themselves.

As for the slut thing, if a girl cares what other people think about her, she shouldn't sleep around. But as for those girls/guys who do what they want to do, this is what I think. Think about it before you do it. You don't want to regret sleeping with someone. I imagine if a lot of people did that, their list of people they've been with would be about half as long. And, dammit, use protection.

I think a lot of girls are afraid to admit that they like sex because of shit like this, even if they don't sleep around. People shouldn't be ashamed because they enjoy sex.

dr00
10-04-2003, 03:34 AM
girls are all sluts. all of them. they all deserve to be judged because they are sluts. fuckin sluts. the world would be a better place without them!are you just mad cause you can't get any?

bob dole
10-04-2003, 06:01 AM
litluar i agree with you. and in the last paragraph where u said girls scared to admit they like sex cuz of shit like this. well like i always claim its very obvious why girls are viewed as sluts and guys aren't. VERY VERY VERY OBVIOUS. and its fuckin frustrating to me when sum girl i kno that sleeps around is complaining about how people are calling her a slut. when its obvious why. girls use sex appeal for attention, the is the whole explanation of it all.

and droo. dude like its that hard nowadays to go to a bar, pick up sum stupid drunk chick, take her home and fuck her. matter of fact with the way alot of girls are today no need to even go to a bar, in fact probly dont even got to get alot of them drunk anymore. seriously, if i wanted it i could easily get it. its actually harder to turn it down then to give in. just like stepping down from a fight.

dr00
10-04-2003, 11:49 PM
that's like saying true beauty is on the inside.... only fugly people say that.... only virgins say they "turn it down" :jerkit:

saphirefaery
10-05-2003, 12:47 AM
I guess if you changed your slutty ways and became a better person, and then yes you would be the almighty nonslut!!!:headbang:

Brian
LMFAO.... 'Almighty nonslut"

OrngePlasticTree
10-05-2003, 02:29 PM
i still say yes.

bob dole
10-05-2003, 04:04 PM
orngetree thats just wut i came into this thread again intending to say, lol

OrngePlasticTree
10-05-2003, 04:17 PM
well y'kno

industriaLravEr
10-20-2003, 10:08 PM
Everyone keeps judging people regarding sleeping around based on STD risk...doesn't anyone use condoms anymore?

or if not both parties should get tested on a clean bill of health. Not the most spur-of-the-moment sex accomodating, but a must if you want to phuck like rabbits- with all the rabbits.

Technology has developed some great assistance to get some and still be safe.

snipersloth3
10-20-2003, 10:14 PM
Technology or not, people just don't care sometimes. For those
who can't say no, for those who live in the moment, for those who
think they have something to prove...

...we'll grow out of it.

Lest we be lonely fucks who disrespect ourselves.

saphirefaery
10-21-2003, 07:04 PM
and some people are just that way.stupid.and they will probably forever fuck the ones they don't love, and fuck over the ones they do love....

OrngePlasticTree
10-22-2003, 01:59 AM
and some people are just that way.stupid.and they will probably forever fuck the ones they don't love, and fuck over the ones they do love....AINT THAT THE FUCKING TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!

bob dole
10-24-2003, 12:55 AM
my answer is still yes

OrngePlasticTree
10-24-2003, 01:30 AM
ditto