Using someone for sex

[cosmobaby1]

Would it be totally distasteful to continue sleeping with someone, even though you completely disagreed with everything they said, did, or believed in??

Nick,(The guy that gave me the orgasm) is a first rate jerk, fool, idiot, asshole, whatever you want to call it. However, the man has skillz, with a z.

How he became good at sex while lacking so many of the important social skills required to attain access to women, is completely beyond me.

Back to the question: Can I still fuck 'im, without feeling like I'm sacrificing my own morals, and ethics??

[Jimmy Mac]

Im sure your a smart girl, but this question is stupid.

[euphoric]

does he know he's being used? if so, and you nor him have problems with it, then i say---whatever blows ur skirt up.

[baby jojo]

Well sweetie all of know what the answer is how long is it going to take you to realize it? Come on know i know you cant be that stupid.

[TiNy GuRl]

I personally wouldn't do it , but if both of you are ok w/ it then I don't see anything wrong w/ it.

[DJ Logix]

Logix says: "Keep fuckin"

[Jimmy Mac]

If you dont understand the answer its simple....hes probably not the only man with skillz with a z but im sure there are guys out there who arent asshole jerks with skillz with a z as well.

[DJ Logix]

I personally wouldnt feel used at all.

[zan]

fuck the shit out of him lol.

[cosmobaby1]

Okay first of all......I specifically remember threatening Baby Jojo's life if she ever spoke (or typed) to me again! So she can go fuck herself.

And now back to the issue at hand: It's not really a question of if he knows he's being used, its more like, does he really care!? I'm pretty sure the answer to that is no.

And BTW! If the answer is so freakin clear to everyone else, and I'm a dumbass for asking, then why are there conflicting answers??

I have come to the conclusion that I'm getting a few toys at the Inserection, tonight and calling it a lonely year!

He can just go find some racist, ignorant little redneck hootchie to fuck....maybe someone like....BABY JOJO!!!

[Schnatz]

there are men out there with both mad bedroom skillz as well as a sparkling personality. don't sell yourself short. you can do better and you know it.

[Detachable_Penis]

Sex is fun. If his personality takes away from that, there's no reason why you shouldn't have a purely sexual relationship.

It's a great thing when you find someone you're sexually compatible with. Have fun while you're still young enough to have it.

[kevinb70]

you tell most guys you are just using him for sex ... and they'll grin ear to ear. "YEAH! I'm being USED!"

Go on a man-whoring safari. We are, after all, life-support and mobility apparatuses for a penis.

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[Lucent]

Go on a man-whoring safari. We are, after all, life-support and mobility apparatuses for a penis.

Now that's some funny shit!!! Woot Woot!!


Kim....my advice to you would be this:

If you're hard up for some sex and can't seem to find it anywhere else, AND the both of you are pretty much in agreeance that outside the bedroom you're about as compatible as Mother Teresa and Saddam Hussein...but don't really care because the sex is good....AND it doesn't make YOU feel "dirty" for doing it....then I'd have to say go for it. I agree with Detachable_Penis on this one. Sex IS about fun when you're not involved with a person (in which case it would be much deeper and more meaningful than just fun).

Don't sacrifice your morals to get some booty though...that would ultimately not be in your favor I believe. Understand that what Schnatz said IS true...there are guys out there w/ great personalities and who can still take you for the ride of your life in bed. You just have to look hard for them.

Furthermore, I'd not worry about HIS feelings in all this. Like KevinB70 said...guys like that kinda shit. Most of the times in situations like that, the guy would be all about gettin' some, and not feeling "used". It totally depends on the situation, of course.

Use your best judgement. Don't sacrifice. Don't sell yourself short, if you stop to think about it and decide that what you're doing is just that.

Just my two cents...

[cosmobaby1]

MMkay.....I took everyone's advice into consideration, and when he called on Saturday night, I decided to go out with him.

The evening pretty much was the best evening we ever had together. I wasn't worried about where the relationship was going, or what everything he was saying had to do with me, or any other bullshit, and we actually talked to one another. We had an awesome experience sexually, and I was totally able to enjoy it even more because I wasn't being self-dillusional about what it was or wasn't.

I knew it was just sex with some mild companionship, and it made it that much more enjoyable.

Now I have an even bigger problem: he thinks my new outlook on the whole "us" situation is so cool, he wants to be an exclusive couple.

Needless to say I told him I just don't have time with all my other stuff going on.....I am not getting trapped in the girlfriend cage again! Especially with a man who obviously only wants what he can't have.

Theres nothing that says the right man won't come along. In the mean time, I think I'm gonna have a little fun with this one. Besides, the sex in amazing!

[cosmobaby1]

Just wanted to say thanks to everybody for your advice and stuff. You all really helped me put the situation into perspective.


:) Thanks again!

[dnb45rpm]

if u need somebody else to fill that position let me know.

[XxX Kristy XxX]

I dunno. I say if he is a fucking bitch then do not fuck him anymore. I mean he is an ass to u but still getting what he wants. FUCK THAT!!
There are more than 1 person in this world that can get u off. LMAO, date a lesbian. Yah Im sure she can get yah off.

[Karma]

fuck tha bullshit, go get you some gurl. He may be getting what he wants, but so are you.

[cosmobaby1]

I am having problems with my sexuality at the moment, and my family isn't likely to be understanding about it either....so I don't know about actually dating any women any time soon, so I probably won't sleep with any either, just out of principal.

But it feels better now that I've stopped imagining that there is something going on between me and this guy that isn't. I finally feel in control. Like I do have some power over how he makes me feel.

I'm still waiting for Mr. (or Ms.) RIGHT! But Nick will do for now, as far as dick is concerned!

[XxX Kristy XxX]

lmao..just watch out though.
and u should be who u want to be..dont please anyone else..ya know?

[dnb45rpm]

how big is he?

[Karma]

haha, yeah contrary to pop. belief, size does matter.

[dnb45rpm]

so cosmo what size is he?
what size are u?

[Section 8]

haha, yeah contrary to pop. belief, size does matter.

:(

[cosmobaby1]

he's a nice, thick 8.

I'm a 34C....and....wait!!! What the hell does this have to do with.....WHO ARE YOU PEOPLE!!???

[dnb45rpm]

i was just wondering what size is your stuff between your legs
thats all
so i take it it is a good fit?


im a very good fit and shaved

[baby jojo]

Cosmo i wasnt trying to be mean i was trying to get you to realize that you shouldnt sacrifice being treated like shit for good sex. It is not worth it ! You are too good for that. There are toy that can help you they dont talk back.{oh and inserection is closed now}

[kevinb70]

I dunno. I say if he is a fucking bitch then do not fuck him anymore. I mean he is an ass to u but still getting what he wants. FUCK THAT!!
There are more than 1 person in this world that can get u off. LMAO, date a lesbian. Yah Im sure she can get yah off.

ha i knew kristy would mention "lesbian" http://www.thecheapshot.com/icon/anim/licky.gif

cosmobaby1 stay away from the muff!!! You should never come any closer than elbow's length to a coochie

[XxX Kristy XxX]

Hahahaha that lil face rawks..haha yah everyone should have known i would say that

and nooo he is wrong... eat a muff..its great

[Kibler]

eat a muff..its great kristy and i always do seem to agree on this particular issue...

[OrngePlasticTree]

grudge fuck + cleveland steemer. spend the night at his house, screw him, let him fall asleep, take a dump on his chest, and sneak out.

[XxX Kristy XxX]

kristy and i always do seem to agree on this particular issue...



:D hehehe oh thats cuz we rawk and its great...:headbang:

[cosmobaby1]

Yeah....it's all worked out. I don't have to deal with his shit anymore, unless we're fucking, and by then he's usually too busy to be talking much anyway, so its really not that big of a deal anymore.

I totally had a dream that I met an awesome girl the other night, so maybe that's a good omen.

I am seriously warming up to the idea that I sweet, reasonably intelligent chick is exactly what I need!

Does anybody know why the hell my other thread got closed?? I wasn't even posting!! LOL! I leave for 2 days.

Anyway, DnB....how exactly am I supposed to describe my vagina to you? (freak)

Perhaps you should stalk someone else!

[OrngePlasticTree]

another one lost to lesbianism. such a waste.:cry:i need a booty call

[dnb45rpm]

i was just wondering.

pink or brown?
big or small clit?
shaved or trimmed?
extra wet or just wet?
tight f

[XxX Kristy XxX]

LESBIANISM IF FUCKING GREAT!!!

[Shaggie]

am i the only one that finds it funny.. that she posted this after posting how loose she is?? :eek:

[XxX Kristy XxX]

lmao

[bob dole]

Would it be totally distasteful to continue sleeping with someone, even though you completely disagreed with everything they said, did, or believed in??

Nick,(The guy that gave me the orgasm) is a first rate jerk, fool, idiot, asshole, whatever you want to call it. However, the man has skillz, with a z.

How he became good at sex while lacking so many of the important social skills required to attain access to women, is completely beyond me.

Back to the question: Can I still fuck 'im, without feeling like I'm sacrificing my own morals, and ethics??

theres nothing wrong with that. i fuck people i hate all the time. morals? who needs morals!?

[kevinb70]

morels? *looks on the ground*

[cosmobaby1]

I'm not loose!!! I posted how I want to get everything to where it looks pretty, not scarred up from my episiotomy!!

DO YOU KNOW WHAT AN EPISIOTOMY IS??? Yeah I didn't think so! It's where they SPLIT YOU FROM TWAT TO ASSHOLE, so that you don't rip! And while I was at it, I thought I'd have my hymen restored.

Jesus....."isn't it funny how she said she was loose??" Wow...isn't it funny how little you probably actually know about a vagina anyway??!!

I've done my kegels, and I got my shit straight....now I want it to look pretty! I explained, if you had read, that it doesn't actually change how tight you are on the inside, only what it looks like on the outside! Idiot.

[cosmobaby1]

I guess the first part of having morals is knowing how to spell the word, right?

[Shaggie]

pfst pfst pfst... sound familiar?

[kevinb70]

I guess the first part of having morals is knowing how to spell the word, right?

i was talking about the mushroom (looks on ground again)

[OrngePlasticTree]

DO YOU KNOW WHAT AN EPISIOTOMY IS??? Yeah I didn't think so! It's where they SPLIT YOU FROM TWAT TO ASSHOLE, so that you don't rip! And while I was at it, I thought I'd have my hymen restored.

.....eeeew:barf:. i have an overactive imagination. i can understand wht ur sayin, my moms an ob nurse so ive kinda seen pictures in books of this stuff. but dont go for the hymen thing. thats just a cop-out for a mistake you made in life... and mistakes are what made you. plus why go thru that again? the whole thing about the hymen is virginity, and if your a virgin you dont kno what it feels like (exactly) so now that uve had sex (and gone so far as to have a kid) youre obviously not a virgin, and never will be again. but in the great words of dennis miller... thats just my opinion i could be wrong.