fuck fucking

[cuppy]

how come people only want sex nowadays? why is it that you cant like someone, and go on dates with them, and hang out, and not feel obligated to fuck them? and why the hell is sex so overrated??? it can be great, sure, and we all want it sometimes, i am guilty of this too, but its not all its cracked up to be for damn sure.
just wonderin.
who really cares i guess.

[MC-ARION]

did somebody piss you off?

I WILL start crackin skullz very quickly

[Remus83]

IM WITH YOU BABE...Lots of people suck today. Ahh, I suck sometimes too though. *sends you a hug*

[Wings]

They arent all like that Andrea!

Wanna have sex? ;)

[Jimmy Mac]

honestly I dont want sex anymore I want love ya know find that person I can fall in love with possibly

[cuppy]

quite frankly, asking for real love is about as impossible as dating without sex.
arion, i know you will krack skulls for me, thats why you are my official body guard!
wings, dood, i would soooo have sex with you, but then you would never want chris again! hahahhaa!
i love all yall folks, i really do.......
not that im in this predicament myself, i havent had a real date in a looooooooong ass time, i was just wondering.

[DamienXcore]

I completely agree with you. Hell if I was straight I would date you :)

[XxX Kristy XxX]

Im feeling u on that one Cuppy. Im not about sex hardly at all. I mean I would love to find a girl to kick it with and not have to worry about fucking. I dunno maybe this is the romantic pisces in me but I think sex is special. I dont just go have sex with folks. I think that is kind of wrong. Ahh I think thats why I NEVER have sex. I would rather be with someone and have fun than to just have sex every single time we see eachother. Dating is about the fun u have with each other. The smiles and conversations. Err

[straw]

you know as well as i do cuppness, those people exist. However they are hard to find...they look like the regular flavor, and the special few are the lucky ones that get a chance to see who they are on the inside. You'll find what you are looking for without even looking. :)

[consumed]

cuppy, i completely agree.
Nobody can just be in a relationship without sex anymore. I donno ... "call me conservative" ....

[consumed]

well not nobody, some people can... just very rare nowadays

[XxX Kristy XxX]

i can...seriously i can and i dont know how i can do it...my mind isnt set on sex much..i mean yah i fuck around n talk about it but i barely have it...i dunno..i just find more things interesting...i would rather lay around, watch movies n talk with a girl than have sex...i derno...maybe i am weird..lol

[gonzo23]

I, too, would rather get to know the person.
Maybe I'm weird, but sex isn't the most important thing, the love is...

[Mandy]

I agree with Kristy too...why can't you just hang out without feeling like you "should" have sex?
That dopeassstraw is right tho, the good ones are hard to find and you usually find them when you're not even looking. You're gonna get suprised one day girl, and if I was a guy, you'd SO be my type, not only an AWESOME personality and mindset, but cute to boot :D

[SK3000]

There is a science behind sex. Well as said on TV...=p

It brings a relationship closer together. Where love can grow.

I probably (most likely) don't know wut i'm talkin' bout, cuz I've never been in a relationship. If I do, I could care less about sex, because I just want someone to love and care for and be loved and cared for other than people in my family. I would like someone 2 chill with when I'm lonely, someone I can count on to be there for me. I'd say, just a close homie girlie.

[Cynispin]

I think sex is good for 2 things:
1: Making babies
2: A 2 minute head rush


I think most relationships would be better without sex. It just complicates things. To most people it's just a drug anyways, so they'll go to other people to find it.

[gonzo23]

yeah!

[Wings]

I think sex is good for 2 things:
1: Making babies
2: A 2 minute head rush
I can think of 2 more

1.STRESS reliever
2. showing how you feel about someoneI think most relationships would be better without sex. It just complicates things.To most people it's just a drug anyways, so they'll go to other people to find it.

I don't think that it complicates things at all in a lot of cases. If you are in a relationship and you both feel ready to have sex with eachother, then it makes sense to have it. I personally would hate it if my boyfriend only wanted to cuddle and hang out. We of course, do those things, but our sexual relationship is a direct reflection of the rest of our relationship.

OF COURSE...If you both arent ready... you shouldnt be doing it! I just dont agree that sex shouldn't be a part of most relationships.

[cuppy]

oh, i definitely agree that sex is not evil, and it is great when it is with someone that you care about and that cares about you as well.....im talkin about someone that your just kinda interested in getting to know......
you wanna go on a few dates, have some good conversation. if you go out with them three or four times or more, whatever, they think you owe them a more serious title or a romp in the bed.....and its stupid. like i said, im not in this situation, but i have been before, and i know other people have, and i just think its shitty.
but when your in a relationship, its a whole new ballgame......watch out, cuz im after that shit alllllll tha time!!! hehehehehe!

[Wings]

I totally agree cuppy!

[straw]

uh huh. :bam: me too. agree too. with hot momma wings and lady cupness.

[XxX Kristy XxX]

yes um i agree wif u cuppy...dating doesnt mean u get in the pants...u 2 are gettin to know eachother n stuff...hmmm i derno..i hate when u tell someone u like them and they assume u 2 are just gonna fuck..its like whoa there, wait a lil bit..ya know?

[straw]

i hate when u tell someone u like them and they assume u 2 are just gonna fuck..its like whoa there, wait a lil bit..ya know?

hahahaha...true dat girl! if i were to confess a likeness in a girl..she automatically assume im just a playa and like ive fucked dozens out the carton. give a boy a chance!! jeez!

[Jadea]

yes um i agree wif u cuppy...dating doesnt mean u get in the pants...u 2 are gettin to know eachother n stuff...hmmm i derno..i hate when u tell someone u like them and they assume u 2 are just gonna fuck..its like whoa there, wait a lil bit..ya know?


yup, :headbang: I have had that happen to me before well, more than once actually and it kinda makes me wonder what image i portray..lol....i personally just wanna chill and have fun...i think the "gettin to know u" stage is VERY important...before sex...but u know..some just go right at it like rabbits and shyt....without knowing each other for hours..lol...

[XxX Kristy XxX]

^^^true...too many ppl rush into things...dude its like ok yah we just met and we banged...oh here comes a week later and u 2 realized u werent for eachother. maybe u 2 didnt have anything in common. welp u know someone is gonna be like oh oh yah i fucked her the first time we went out and make her out to be a whore or vise versa...i see that happen way too much..get to know eachother first man.

[vapor]

you know, i'm going to go out on a limb and disagree-- i say fuck not fucking.

everyone attaches all this special meaning to sex... but when you take a step back, think about it, and get over the religious brainwashing we've all been thru-- IT"S JUST SEX. nothing special, just about anyone can do it, i mean really.

people say it complicates things, but as long as both people know what's going on from the beginning there is absolutely nothing wrong with a casual (sport) fuck every once in awhile. how bad would it suck if you hooked up with someone, spent all this time and energy on them, only to find out that they are HORRIBLE in the sack???

i dunno, maybe i just hate being disappointed.

discuss.

[nesquik]

how bad would it suck if you hooked up with someone, spent all this time and energy on them, only to find out that they are HORRIBLE in the sack???

i dunno, maybe i just hate being disappointed.

discuss.


hahaha! thats my problem with abstinence...its a really nice concept and all but what if your future husband sucked in bed?? and now you're screwed bc you married him. i dunno, thats just always bothered me :)

[dr00]

vapor wins

[dr00]

hahaha! thats my problem with abstinence...its a really nice concept and all but what if your future husband sucked in bed?? and now you're screwed bc you married him. i dunno, thats just always bothered me :)i say fuck abstinence! i'll make sure my future husband is great in the sack! er... umm :vroom:

[XxX Kristy XxX]

whoa there droo....oh my

[dr00]

shoosh!

[cuppy]

first of all.....vapor, sex is special. religion hasnt even got anything to do with it. pregnancy and diseases do. if youve actually had sex that meant more than anything else to you, it wouldnt even matter if it was horrible. you wouldnt even care if the person you were truly madly deeply in love with sucked in the sack. that would be the last thing on your mind. if you love them that much, your gonna be around long enought to teach them the ways anyway. but youd have to actually feel that way about someone to understand.
fucking is dangerous, its stupid, and its a waste of time. thats my personal opinion, i dont expect anyone else to agree, but i feel that way about it.

[XxX Kristy XxX]

^^a fucking men..:)

i totally agree 100%

[vapor]

first of all.....vapor, sex is special. i'm sure the neighborhood dogs feel that way when they hump on the lawn, the only thing special about sex is the combination of endorphines it releases.


religion hasnt even got anything to do with it.
oh really? where do you get the basis for your values and morals from? did they pop out of the thin air? nope, someone a long time ago said "this is good, this is bad, ect", wrote it down in a book, and claimed that a giant invisable man in the sky would seriously fuck your shit up if you didn't do exactly like you were told.


pregnancy and diseases do.
while i agree that both really suck, they are also preventable.

if youve actually had sex that meant more than anything else to you, it wouldnt even matter if it was horrible.
somehow i don't see that as an article in cosmo in the near future...

you wouldnt even care if the person you were truly madly deeply in love with sucked in the sack. that would be the last thing on your mind. if you love them that much, your gonna be around long enought to teach them the ways anyway.
andrea, sweetheart, i love you, but you know me better than that.


but youd have to actually feel that way about someone to understand.
hey now, no hitting below the belt... and if you mindn't mind, please don't step on my heart-- it seems that someone i used to love ripped it out and left it laying there...

fucking is dangerous, its stupid, and its a waste of time. thats my personal opinion, i dont expect anyone else to agree, but i feel that way about it.
as with most things between you and i, i guess we'll just have to settle on agreeing to disagree.

[cuppy]

:swords: :scream: alright then, agreed. i really feel like arguing everything you previously said, but why waste my time? you feel one way about it, i feel another.
















































TOO BAD I WIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



CUPPY

[XxX Kristy XxX]

I personally can't have casual sex. I look at it like if u just wanna get off then go masturbate. Sex is more than getting off to me. Its all about the emotions and being so close to that other person. Yah anyways. I guess everyone is different.

[vapor]

:swords: :scream: alright then, agreed. i really feel like arguing everything you previously said, but why waste my time? you feel one way about it, i feel another.
this from the same girl who gives me 6 kinds of shit any time i argue with people-- bring it on...;)


TOO BAD I WIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


sug, according to dr00 i've already won... but i'll let you stay in that wonderful fantasy world of yours... for now.

[SmurfATL]

you know, i'm going to go out on a limb and disagree-- i say fuck not fucking.
everyone attaches all this special meaning to sex... but when you take a step back, think about it, and get over the religious brainwashing we've all been thru-- IT"S JUST SEX. nothing special, just about anyone can do it, i mean really.
people say it complicates things, but as long as both people know what's going on from the beginning there is absolutely nothing wrong with a casual (sport) fuck every once in awhile. how bad would it suck if you hooked up with someone, spent all this time and energy on them, only to find out that they are HORRIBLE in the sack???
i dunno, maybe i just hate being disappointed.
discuss.


You my friend are de-sensitized to an end were you do not want to show anyone that you can love. However, I do find your mask amusing. It is not good to be like that when dealing with someone who does love, and is trying to discuss it.

first of all.....vapor, sex is special. religion hasnt even got anything to do with it. pregnancy and diseases do. if youve actually had sex that meant more than anything else to you, it wouldnt even matter if it was horrible. you wouldnt even care if the person you were truly madly deeply in love with sucked in the sack. that would be the last thing on your mind. if you love them that much, your gonna be around long enought to teach them the ways anyway. but youd have to actually feel that way about someone to understand.
fucking is dangerous, its stupid, and its a waste of time. thats my personal opinion, i dont expect anyone else to agree, but i feel that way about it.

This is complete crap. You are not having sex with the right people. You should be happy pleasing your mate as much, if not more than when your mate pleases you. People have problems giving because they are afraid they will not get something in return, and females tend to get bitter like this more often, because it is more difficult to give most women an orgasm compared to a man.

My advise would be to find someone who finds joy in pleasing you after a hard day and you will be happy. Just dont be selfish! Give back because you want to, not becaues he asks for it.

On your point about guys wanting sex after the 4th date, that is something called "human nature". If you dont want to have sex and just want to shut your man up, give him oral sex. If you do not like performing it than scratch this idea. I have taken it up because i can use it to please my women when i'm not really in the mood.


After knocking everyone off teh high horses i will step down off my soap box and await a responce.

[vapor]

You my friend are de-sensitized to an end were you do not want to show anyone that you can love.really? you don't say... did you figure that out all on your own? you should really consider becoming a detective or perhaps a psychologist...

:rolleyes:
However, I do find your mask amusing.as do i.
It is not good to be like that when dealing with someone who does love, and is trying to discuss it.
.i'm just bringing out the other side of the issue, which is rarely done on here in everyone's rush to agree with the cool kids-- now they have to choose which cool kid they want to agree with ;)

[Kibler]

sex is just like anything else in the world - it is what it is, and the meanings we attach to it are exactly that - OUR meanings. perhaps it is valuable for some to view the physical act of sex as being something inherently infused with emotion, but that's not necessarily the case. yes, sex CAN be an extremely emotional experience, an expression of love, etc, etc, but that doesn't mean that sex in itself is all of those things - it means that particular instances of sex are those things. the same can be said of any act of intimacy, from sex to kissing to holding hands. the meaning of each of them is determined by context - what YOU put into them - not what meaning they carry themselves...

[vapor]

"give a philosopher a pen and enough paper and he can convince the world of anything." --r.a.h.

[cuppy]

oh you must be right, since droo agrees with you. because i remember the day when he was given the title of God. no offense droo.

keep your points, all of you, and think what you will. my point is simply that sex is done too much, too unsafely, and not used in my idea of the right context. do what you will with your penis, and have fun, if thats what suits you. but i learned a valuable lesson from my experiences, and i choose to use that knowledge to my advantage. maybe i was bashing sex and men in the beginning, but im not in the scheme of things. i think the general population needs to learn other ways of expressing love that simply having sex.
that said, vapor, quit arguing with me, your making me ill. i respect your opinion, respect mine. and thats that.

[vapor]

:p

[Kibler]

"give a philosopher a pen and enough paper and he can convince the world of anything." --r.a.h.

i'm just always right. :(

[_scott_]

keep your points, all of you, and think what you will.

Not to be an asshole, but if you didn't want anyone to rebut your statements, why did you post them on a public forum? Forums are designed for discussion. Wouldn't it have made more sense to post them on a blog or other form of journal?

[dr00]

cuppy, i love you, but i remember will saying first to agree to disagree.... and you couldn't let it go
so what if i agree with him? doesn't mean i hate you or love you any less? it just means what it means <-- oh the irony

[DJ Logix]

Double 0 Dr00 can i be ur future husband??? Plz

[dr00]

sorry... no one's gonna tie me down

[DJ Logix]

Dood plz we can swing around and even partake in heterosexual acts with females every now n then

[bob dole]

how come people only want sex nowadays? why is it that you cant like someone, and go on dates with them, and hang out, and not feel obligated to fuck them? and why the hell is sex so overrated??? it can be great, sure, and we all want it sometimes, i am guilty of this too, but its not all its cracked up to be for damn sure.
just wonderin.
who really cares i guess.

u just figured this out?

and sex is over-rated cuz sex appeal is used too fuckin much. by all your mainstream pop so-called "artists" such as brittany and christina. take a look at magazines. almost every fuckin magazine cover you see has the word SEX on it in big writing. "improve ur sex life" "be the bomb in bed" blah blah blah. hahaha, i was up watching the enzyte informercials the other nite for like an hour and it just depressed the fuck outta me at how fuckin pathetic society is becoming. fuck sex, i dont want it. thats right i dont want sex. i want a relationship, and sex would be a fine thing to come along with the package but i've lived without it to this point and i have no regrets. sex is a fuckin drug. sex fiends are no different from meth fiends. only there are way more of them.