How soon do you trust someone enough to not use a condom?

[nakedcoldiron]

How long do you have to know someone to not use a condom? If at all? What kind of things does someone have to prove to you before you trust them enough? With so many diseases going around and the risk of getting prego do you think you would ever do it if you already don't?

[lilpunkkid]

i would wait until you know you want a baby with her...don't get me wrong having sex with out a condom is great and all....but if you don't want to wait that far then probley a few months after or if she says it ok just be careful though :)

jackie

[euphoric]

you forgot to add "when the girl gets on bc"

[Merlyn540]

it all depends on your partner..... some girls I wouldn't touch with someone else's dick

[Darkness]

Pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases are always an issue. It also depends on how much you love the person to be able to deal with shit like that too.

[Mandy]

I think it depends on how close you are to one another. If it wasn't for the fact that I'm not ready to have a kid, Micah and I would never wear condoms. I would never cheat and I trust him when he says he won't either. Plus he really doesn't have the chance to cheat...lol he works with my folks and lives with me and we're almost always together lol
But yah, it took alot of trust and work to get to where we are and the same goes for anyone else really.

[Kep]

It all depends, If I trust the person then that's normally ok but 90 % of the time I will have one on me. In those times I don't well it's only because it's a wild night and we're just real horny and the moment takes over. Ha. oops.

[Serve3]

how soon? after I smell them! hahahaha

[biggin_junglism]

i always bag it up......

[Drastik]

no kids for me thank you

[poppin pixe]

we all know that you can never truly trust anyone.
if the girl isn't on birth control then i wouldn't go without using one just b/c of the good chances of becoming pregant..not to mention, possibly getting a disease.
i believe that once you've been with someone for a while and had a chance to really know them, wouldn't mind being with them for the rest of your life, and wouldn't mind possibly having a child then go for it.
If it were me I would always use a condom just b/c you NEVER "really know" unless you get tests to prove it.
All sorts of people have some kind of disease and it's scary to think about it b/c those people could be the one who you've been with or you couldve been with someone who has been with that person.
all i gotta say is just be careful a/b ur choices...woah, i hope i dont sound like a counselor lol, but ya kno.. im jus bein real.

[dr00]

does "not even knowing their name" count as an option? :confused::confused::confused::twitch:

[jojobee]

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.oi.

[XxX Kristy XxX]

I totally agree wif April. She said everything that I was about to write. Being careful and safe is always better. Folks can lie to u and u will think u know them. People need to watch out more.

[Ellen]

as soon as they get tested and it comes back negative.......did you know 1 out of every 3 HIV victims doesn't even know they are infected! Be smart people.

[snipersloth3]

as soon as they get tested and it comes back negative.......did you know 1 out of every 3 HIV victims doesn't even know they are infected! Be smart people.
Dear God...

[Black Lotus]

Yep, I just about to write was April said, and then Kristy wrote what I was going to sooo........

Be careful. There are to many diseases. If you do not want children right now, then I would hold off until you do.

[xxplicitgrooves]

waa WAA wa WAH waaa

charlie brown

[cosmobaby1]

Well.....everybody said what I was going to say.

But yeah. If you aren't willing to ask them questions like "How many folks have you been with?", then maybe you shouldn't be having sex with them in the first place. Being able to ask someone anything, and being able to answer their questions in return, is one of the most basic levels of trust. If you don't have that kind of trust, and you still want to bang them, then the reasonable thing to do would be to have them and yourself tested every 6 months, and after every partner.

We're not talking about just AIDS and babies! All of those other slides they showed you in Sex Ed....yeah....you get those things from infected folks too!

There's my speech, now on to the good part. Once you have created a level of trust with someone you love, and you have taken proper precautions against pregnancy, THERE IS NOTHING LIKE BANGIN' RAWHIDE!!! Woooohoooo!


I miss having sex. I should go try to do something about that, now.

[xxplicitgrooves]

no digity

gotta big it up

hey ya hey ya hey ya hey ya

[cosmobaby1]

^What he said. Yeah. ^

[xxplicitgrooves]

i feel that oral with out a condom is ok, if you know forsure the guy is healthy, but othen than that, strap up!! take no chances.

[cosmobaby1]

Well if its something you can catch by orally gratifying a man, then you should be careful doing that with women, too! An infected woman can give you something gross, just as easily as a man can.

And some of that, in addition to making you smell like a gangrin (sp?) infected rhino, cannot be cured with penicillin.

Not to mention, men that if you think you have chlamydia, then the doctor has to jam this little rod up your urethra and swivel it around just to get a sample, and that's never fun.

[genius@large]

its weird...

where do thoughts come from?
no one knows they just appear...

i just go on a whim, n stick it in




o.0

[HellRaiza65]

my thing is....at first....always use a rubber....if it feels like youre gonna keep each other around for a while.....go get tested TOGETHER......n make sure shes on BC....after that ........FUCK LIKE BUNNIES!!!!!!!!!!!!

[xxplicitgrooves]

Well if its something you can catch by orally gratifying a man, then you should be careful doing that with women, too! An infected woman can give you something gross, just as easily as a man can.

And some of that, in addition to making you smell like a gangrin (sp?) infected rhino, cannot be cured with penicillin.

Not to mention, men that if you think you have chlamydia, then the doctor has to jam this little rod up your urethra and swivel it around just to get a sample, and that's never fun. *cringes, grabs crotch and shutters*

[xxplicitgrooves]

its weird...

where do thoughts come from?
no one knows they just appear...

i just go on a whim, n stick it in




o.0:twak:

tighten up

[kevinb70]

always (cept oral) unless ur trying to have babies... i always used it even when i was married... i prefer not relying on someone else for birth control. and think of all that white goo that would be draining out of the girl afterwards... EWWWWW lol

[CrazzyAngel]

I like Kiels Idea lol...it would be a smart way to do it. Except that some STDs can't be blocked by a condom...